Then I still don't know what you are talking about. I believe that trans people have feelings about themselves, and that those feelings are real to them. I believe it to be objective reality: that such people with such feelings actually exist. I'm convinced of it. I know a few trans people and have actually talked to them about being trans. I am thoroughly convinced that the trans people I know actually exist and are experiencing the feelings that they claim. I take that to be objectively real about them. Consequently, when I hear or read about other trans people who I don't know I am inclined to accept as objective reality that they actually exist and have the feelings they claim. I suppose that there are people who are only pretending to have trans feelings for some reason, but I don't believe that they are very numerous.
I also believe that trans people can truely believe and feel they are the opposite sex. But that is different to determining whether a persons beliefs and feelings are real outside themselves and not misplaced. I will tend to believe people at face value until otherwise.
But its when peoples beliefs and feelings may encroach on others that the problems happen. A man can believe they are a women. But when they enter female spaces and sports its only natural and fair to question that situation as it is compromising others. Thats when there needs to be some objectivity as to what is actually going on.
You say that only a minority of trans people may pretend. But in reality the majority are to various degrees misplacing their feelings and beliefs. For example around 85% of young people who identify as trans will go onto realign with their nate sex. Quite often gays display similar feelings and are misdiagnosed as trans.
Also children with Autism can be wrongly disagnosed as trans as they are usually easily influenced. Not to mention that generally puberty and adolescence is a confusing time of development especially relating to identity. There is a high incident of body dysmorphia especially where theres psychological problems and esppecially for females who suffer higher rates of anxiety disorders. We have seen spikes in females identifying as trans when they were not.
So as you can see just taking peoples words for feeling the opposite sex is different when it may effect others in public or when kids and young people are involved due to the nature of the problem and the high incident of false positives.
Here again I seem to not understand you. Yes, when I interact with a trans person I generally assume that they truly believe in what they're feeling.
So do I. But that will go for anyone. If they tell me how they feel I am going to take them at face value unless I have reason not to. That may be if a male claims to be a women and then may enter a womens space. I think it is only right to question this as now its not longer just associated with them and their feelings but now they are affecting others. Especially if children are involved.
But that is the same for everyone. Someone may say they feel like a Viking and even dress as one and get into role plays. But once they start acting like a Viking on others and harming them then its a different story. People do the same to Christians. A person can believe in God but the moment they start pushing that on others and in schools its objected to.
"Don't push your God on me" they say.
I think there was also examples of the SSM laws with the Cake decorator who did not want to create a cake for a gay wedding. So people can feel whatever. Its when this clashes with others who have different feelings and beliefs that the problems arise. Thats when we need some objective basis to sort it all out. I guess that the unreal idea of trying to create a relative society where different beliefs are competing. As opposed to a united belief.
I generally take that approach with all people, trans or not.
Yes and its partly because we are interactive creatures. We know we have an inner subjective world with feelings and experiences. In fact that is what interacting with others is all about, experiences and feelings. Sometimes gut feelings. So part of interacting is allowing people to be themselves. Humans are constantly reading the environment, peoples faces for cues, signs and info on whats going on.
But it would be unreal to say that when we do say encounter someone who feels the opposite sex its counter intuitive to us. Its not something we can easily assimulate. Most people tend to put aside their feelings and beliefs and engage the person rather than the identity. Usually eye contact and all else is secondary. But this would be the same for me as engaging with anyone who may be different.
You mean that if I think I am Ziggy Stardust nobody else is allowed to?
Of course not, look at all the Elvis impersonators lol. Its when someone truely believes they are Elvis or Ziggy or Christ is when we need to be concerned. Then the line between reality and delusion has been crossed and someone may get hurt. Even if thats the person themselves.
But if they really want to be Ziggy and it doesn't harm anyone then why not. Though I am going to draw the line if they start singing and they don't do justice to the original artist lol.
What law is there that requires that we have to accept other people's feelings as real to them? I shouldn't think a law would be necessary. Can you give an example?
I thought there was a law that made subjective identity a protected species like race or sex. So if thats the case descriminating against someone on the basis of gender identity is against the law. How do you think this law may be breach.
Do you think that not acknowledging say a male who believes they are a women is wrong. Say someone calls them a man rather than a women. What about denying a male who truely believes they are a female in being allowed to enter womens spaces. Its that descriminatory. What about a male not dating a biological male who identifies as a women. Is that being bigoted against transwomen.
If as they say identifying as a women makes someone a women in every respect as much as a biological women. If gender identity is a real entity protected under the law like race then all the above should be illegal as if we replace identity with race we can clearly see its descrimination and against the law.
It doesn't have to be laws. It can be policy. A school that allows a transfemale to enter females toilets is making other females accept a trans persons feelings. A female who has to box against a biological male identifying as a female due to Oylmpic rules has to accept the trans boxers feelings. Or at least be put in a position where if they don't they will not be able to persue their own dreams.
When a school or organisation allows males to enter womens spaces they are imposing an ideology on women who may disagree but have no choice but to put aside their own feelings and beliefs. Why should the majority be made to do that. If this was say Creationism in schools or a Christian trying to push their belief at the Olympics like the surfer who had a mere illustration on his surf board and denied.