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I met someone I dated for about a month on E-harmony. We lacked Chemistry but everything else about her was just fine.

If you are going to try a dating site I think E-harmony is probably one of the better ones. They can basically narrow people down so that you won't be seeing people who arn't really marriage material. However the thing they can't really test for (that no one can test for) is Chemistry, which can only be established by meeting in person.

I do recommend it for a little while. The biggest problem with it is that people seem to narrow you out and you arn't sure why. And the second biggest problem is that as your list gets narrowed down it seems to widen the geographical range to keep your list populated. At first I was only getting people who where an hour away or less. But later on I was getting people who where 6 to 8 hours of driving distance away.

So its probably worth it to try it for a few months and see how it goes. But don't be afraid to cancel it later on.
 
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thanks Kirk :)

yeah i've been a nonpaying member for a little while now and decided to take advantage of a three month subscription sale they had. if i meet someone then yay! if not, then i didn't waste too much money. so far they seem to be pretty good about staying relatively close to me geographically. so we'll see i guess :D
 
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there is one guy thats really gotten my attention, but i suspect he's not a subscriber. we sent eachother icebreakers saying we would like to talk about a week ago, and i sent him a message but haven't heard from him yet. so far he's kept the match open though. so i guess time will tell :)
 
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