similar to how women pastors and women mentoring men is unbibical?
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similar to how women pastors and women mentoring men is unbibical?
The church(brick and mortar) is the only place where this happens. Yet, like children when they are told they cannot do something, the feminine movement is bound and determined to show GOD that He is not in control. I would hate to be there when the defecation hits the rotary oscillator.
Blade
Jesus taught Mary of Bethany, who was specifically encouraged to sit at his feet. Surely that wasn't a sin.men mentoring women is a sin.
similar to how women pastors and women mentoring men is unbibical?
King Lemuel's mother's wisdom was above much men's wisdom. She counseled her son in wisdom. The 31st chapter of Proverbs. She believed that it was possible for a woman to have wisdom and teach it.31:26. Wisdom comes from God. If a woman has God she has Wisdom. If she speaks not her own words but God's words. The same as it is with a man. It was not Jesus that said that a woman should remain silent and if she was going to learn anything she should learn at home. 1 Corinthians 14:34-35. With that teaching, one would have to feel sorry for the woman with the unbelieving husband at home.
There is one thing that comes to mind: Men are forbidden by God to act and dress like women, just as women are forbidden to act and dress like men. (Deut. 22:5) Other than that, I do not know. What other things did you have in mind concerning what men are not allowed to do in comparison to women?
As to the passage of scripture that most claim to forbid women from holding authority over a man in a fellowship, notice that the Apostle Paul said, “I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man..” (1 Tim. 2:12) Contextually speaking, he is speaking according to his own personal judgment and not as a direct command from the Lord, as he has done on other occasions. (1 Cor. 7:6, 12)
That the thinking processes of women are different from that of men is undeniable. Because of this, there must have been something about women Paul observed that he did not see in men which made him uncomfortable with allowing a woman to assume a position of authority over men.
But as for those women who completely disregard this scripture, one cannot help but wonder how much of the other scriptures they are either disregarding or twisting to their own ends.
But nonetheless, those who insist that 1 Timothy 2:12 expressly forbids women to be Pastors and teachers over men will find themselves hard-pressed to make that case from the full context of that passage. There are women who will point that out and in that case, they would be right.
But despite Paul’s judgment on the matter, he commended Aquila and Priscilla for hosting a fellowship in their home, (1 Cor. 16:19) that passage suggesting the possibility of Priscilla co-reigning over that fellowship with her husband Aquila.
Nevertheless, hands dare not be laid suddenly on anyone for a leadership position in a church, especially women, but even if women are not being chosen for positions of authority within their respective fellowships, that does not mean that there are not other opportunities available to faithfully serve Christ in the manner in which He has called each and every one of them. As for those women who are already serving in a Pastoral role, let them remain where they are until they sense the Holy Spirit telling them otherwise. I am only concerned with what doctrine they preach.
Here are some more examples of verses that need some wisdom (and searching) to understand within the context of the entity of Scripture.
This passage in Deuteronomy isn't talking about clothing per say. They're people that say "women shouldn't wear pants" because that's "men's clothing".
Yet if you want to define women's clothing as something that's open at the bottom; technically you could argue that Jesus wore a dress. Garments for men and women in the ancient world were pretty much made very similarly. This is true of most "hunter / gatherer", "nomadic", "newly agrarian / semi agrarian" cultures.
Now of course this doesn't account for cultural variations like women wearing Salwar Kermess and men wearing kilts. Those types of things are rooted in traditions that go back centuries. But that isn't what the passage is talking about either.
This passage in Deuteronomy is actually talking about battle armaments. A women is not to put on (battle armaments) above and beyond (in front of) that of men.
Now it's not saying, women can't fight in wars. Women have been active combatants in wars ever since humanity has been fighting them. They are not to play a role beyond that which a male combatant would play though.
Contextually this portion of this verse is talking about using women as human shields. Historically, most standing armies prior to WWI; had female "camp followers" (wives and families of soldiers) some of whom were actually "in the army" themselves.
This goes all the way back to Roman times. Rome had the first standing army in western civilization and in places where legions were in wilderness outposts; soldiers' families went with them. The Romans actually had women in auxiliary forces to defend the camp while the soldiers were off in battle. They actually trained and provided weapons for these auxiliary forces that were smaller to those of the army and lighter for women to use.
Now the next part of this verse; men aren't to put on women's garments. If taken in the context of combat (seeing how the beginning of this verse is talking about warfare) contextually means men aren't to dress as women either as a means of evading combat, or as a means of trying to deceive the enemy.
Now this verse too requires some contextual understanding as to how the form of linguistic expression is used. The Greek in that passage is a type of couplet form. Which means that the verse about women "teaching" or "authority" over men is connected to the following passage about Adam and Eve.
Now looking at what the context of the verses about Adam and Eve are saying; give us some context as to what the prior verses are saying. The verses about Adam and Eve talk about Adam being created first and Eve being deceived; but Adam was not, so therefore his accountability to God was greater than Eve's because he didn't eat the fruit because of some "magical" belief that it would make him wise.
So back up to the verses in front of that. Women aren't to teach that they are the authors of man - because Adam was created first.... And historically speaking, there was a goddess cult that taught that.
Now what Paul probably saw besides the obvious differences between how men and women think / act / what they are capable of doing; was the variant of the shift in society by the time you get to the organization of society in the ancient world; moved away from matriarchy more toward patriarchy. Obviously with these goddess cults, there was matriarchal elements still within society.
Now here's where it get's interesting; back up to the Old Testament. We have several examples of female leaders. We have Deborah the judge, Esther, Miriam, and various women who are named and actually sanctioned as leaders by God. (Micah 6:4)
Now contextually if we understand this in light of ancient Israel being a nomadic, (probably) quasi-matriarchal society; we can better understand the leadership role Miriam probably held. She would have been akin to what Native Americans would call a "clan mother". This is a high ranking female leader who's well respected in the community as a "wise mother figure". This also was likely the context of Deborah being a judge and that sort of thing. Even today "queen" leaders of nations are respected, especially if they are good leaders. (Look at Princess Dianna. She wielded a lot of power as a leader. The populous looked up to her.)
And here being another example of the female leader. Also Timothy's mother and grandmother, Dorcas. Phoebe was a deaconess. And there's a very interesting passage; Romans 16:7 which names "Junia" as "note worthy among the apostles". Now what does that mean? Was she someone the apostles noted, or was she noteworthy as an apostle? The linguistic Greek jury has been out on that one a while!
And so the practical aspect of all of this?
So if we take the whole of Scripture into context: then yes, we see female leaders in both ancient israel and the church.
in Nyc it’s legal for women to go topless if she’s a performer. The tourists take photos with them Don’t make blanket statements especially about local customs. A lot of Asian and African women also go topless without feeling that this is unusual. Up until about the1920s men wore tank tops as part of their bathing suitsThere is a difference between males and females not wearing a top. That is why I dont believe that people should be offended that the Bible forbids women having spiritual authority over men.
There is a difference between males and females not wearing a top. That is why I dont believe that people should be offended that the Bible forbids women having spiritual authority over men.
Hi Sammy-San......Where does the Bible say that. Men and Women are equal on this earth yet each has a different role in God's plan. The Church is the one place that difference shows up most dramatically. 1 Tim 2:9-15men mentoring women is a sin.
Here are some more examples of verses that need some wisdom (and searching) to understand within the context of the entity of Scripture.
This passage in Deuteronomy isn't talking about clothing per say. They're people that say "women shouldn't wear pants" because that's "men's clothing".
Yet if you want to define women's clothing as something that's open at the bottom; technically you could argue that Jesus wore a dress. Garments for men and women in the ancient world were pretty much made very similarly. This is true of most "hunter / gatherer", "nomadic", "newly agrarian / semi agrarian" cultures.
Now of course this doesn't account for cultural variations like women wearing Salwar Kermess and men wearing kilts. Those types of things are rooted in traditions that go back centuries. But that isn't what the passage is talking about either.
This passage in Deuteronomy is actually talking about battle armaments. A women is not to put on (battle armaments) above and beyond (in front of) that of men.
Now it's not saying, women can't fight in wars. Women have been active combatants in wars ever since humanity has been fighting them. They are not to play a role beyond that which a male combatant would play though.
Contextually this portion of this verse is talking about using women as human shields. Historically, most standing armies prior to WWI; had female "camp followers" (wives and families of soldiers) some of whom were actually "in the army" themselves.
This goes all the way back to Roman times. Rome had the first standing army in western civilization and in places where legions were in wilderness outposts; soldiers' families went with them. The Romans actually had women in auxiliary forces to defend the camp while the soldiers were off in battle. They actually trained and provided weapons for these auxiliary forces that were smaller to those of the army and lighter for women to use.
Now the next part of this verse; men aren't to put on women's garments. If taken in the context of combat (seeing how the beginning of this verse is talking about warfare) contextually means men aren't to dress as women either as a means of evading combat, or as a means of trying to deceive the enemy.
Now this verse too requires some contextual understanding as to how the form of linguistic expression is used. The Greek in that passage is a type of couplet form. Which means that the verse about women "teaching" or "authority" over men is connected to the following passage about Adam and Eve.
Now looking at what the context of the verses about Adam and Eve are saying; give us some context as to what the prior verses are saying. The verses about Adam and Eve talk about Adam being created first and Eve being deceived; but Adam was not, so therefore his accountability to God was greater than Eve's because he didn't eat the fruit because of some "magical" belief that it would make him wise.
So back up to the verses in front of that. Women aren't to teach that they are the authors of man - because Adam was created first.... And historically speaking, there was a goddess cult that taught that.
Now what Paul probably saw besides the obvious differences between how men and women think / act / what they are capable of doing; was the variant of the shift in society by the time you get to the organization of society in the ancient world; moved away from matriarchy more toward patriarchy. Obviously with these goddess cults, there was matriarchal elements still within society.
Now here's where it get's interesting; back up to the Old Testament. We have several examples of female leaders. We have Deborah the judge, Esther, Miriam, and various women who are named and actually sanctioned as leaders by God. (Micah 6:4)
Now contextually if we understand this in light of ancient Israel being a nomadic, (probably) quasi-matriarchal society; we can better understand the leadership role Miriam probably held. She would have been akin to what Native Americans would call a "clan mother". This is a high ranking female leader who's well respected in the community as a "wise mother figure". This also was likely the context of Deborah being a judge and that sort of thing. Even today "queen" leaders of nations are respected, especially if they are good leaders. (Look at Princess Dianna. She wielded a lot of power as a leader. The populous looked up to her.)
And here being another example of the female leader. Also Timothy's mother and grandmother, Dorcas. Phoebe was a deaconess. And there's a very interesting passage; Romans 16:7 which names "Junia" as "note worthy among the apostles". Now what does that mean? Was she someone the apostles noted, or was she noteworthy as an apostle? The linguistic Greek jury has been out on that one a while!
And so the practical aspect of all of this?
So if we take the whole of Scripture into context: then yes, we see female leaders in both ancient israel and the church.
“This passage in Deuteronomy isn't talking about clothing per say. They're people that say ‘women shouldn't wear pants" because that's ‘men's clothing’…This passage in Deuteronomy is actually talking about battle armaments. A women is not to put on (battle armaments) above and beyond (in front of) that of men.”
This passages is clearly referring to clothing and there is no contextual evidence that this was speaking specifically about battle armaments. That in various cultures, in past times and now men and women have warn similar garments whether they be skirt/robe wear or pants, a distinction between the clothing that has pertained to women and that which has pertained to men has always remained.
It was no different in Hebrew culture. For example in Arab cultures, it could be argued that men and women both wear what we might describe as being skirt/robe like wear, but there still remains a distinction between what women wear and what men wear. Even in societies where men and women both wear jeans such as ours, there still remains a distinction in pantwear made for women and that made for men.
The only cultures in which no distinction is made between the kind of clothing that men and women wear are in those societies in which the people are made to wear gender neutral clothing. The two societies that might have come closest to this have been China under Mao Zedong and Cambodia under Pol-Pot.
And although some of the history you appeal to may be informative, there is no contextual evidence that Paul’s reasoning behind not allowing women to seek positions of authority over men had anything to do with a goddess cult. Furthermore, the Greco-Roman culture was not historically known to be a matriarchal society, but more importantly, it was not even scripturally known to be.
Nevertheless, there had to have still been something Paul observed in women that he did not observe in men that made him feel uncomfortable with allowing women to rule over men within the church. What that was, we can only speculate.
But because the Lord inspired to caution the churches he established about electing women to leadership positions placing them above men, it is still scripture that cannot be easily dismissed even in this generation.
And even upon comparing the Greek rendition of 1 Timothy 2:12-14 to the KJV translation, I still found the intent and meaning behind that passage to be contextually the same.
As for figures such as Miriam, Esther, and Deborah, what authority they were given pertained to civic leadership but none of them, nor any women for that matter, were ever called to serve priestly roles in the temple of God as far as scripture is concerned.
Look up said Deuteronomy passages in the Hebrew.
And as dealing with "women in leadership" compare all passages within the entire body of Scripture. Why would God account for female leaders in one era and not another; seeing how God is unchanging.
Your patriarchal view of Paul's writings is not contextually consistent with the whole body of Scripture and since we know God is consistent, I conclude that those who hold your understanding of this; hold a faulty view.
I looked up the Hebrew in the said passage of Deuteronomy and the words that pertain to clothing do not strictly pertain to battle attire as you say that it does, but in this case is applied in a general sense:
You also claimed that my rendering of 1 Timothy 2:12-14 was based on a Patriarchal biased.
Strong's Hebrew word #3627 translated as:
vessel 166x, instrument 39x, weapon 21x, jewel 21x, armor(bearer) 18x, stuff 14x, thing 11x, armor 10x, furniture 7x, carriage 3x, bag 2x, (miscellaneous) 13x
None of these translated words imply "clothing designed for men". All of these are connected to something men carry in relation to something they "do".
Now "...not put on (take up instrumentality of in regards to warfare) what pertains unto man ("valiant men", "warriors", "mighty men").
"Not shall be instituted armaments pertaining to warrior men placed beyond upon a woman; not put on a man garments of a woman; for an abomination to Yahweh ...."
Deuteronomy 22:5 Interlinear: The habiliments of a man are not on a woman, nor doth a man put on the garment of a woman, for the abomination of Jehovah thy God is any one doing these.
Its translation is of patriarchal bias. My instruction of the Greek language (couplette used) and the historical evidence about goddess cults came out of this book:
https://www.cbeinternational.org/sites/default/files/i-suffer-not-woman-kroeger-pp073.pdf