Crushes

[Evie1980]

I hear you. If she found out that a guy like me is interested her, she'd go "Eeeew"... then wonder what she's doing wrong!

I don't think that is the truth. I am sure she would feel very blessed knowuing that someone like you had a crush on her though I can understand your apprehension. I am not sharing mine for various reasons but one of the main reasons is that crushes tend to be fickle - they come and go. You see I had a crush but now I am not so sure. Besides the fact I think he is already taken, I just kow that it isn't for me (and there are plenty more lovelt men on this site ). Call me fickle, I know but I am 'married to my best friend' and I can't cheat on her! Sorry that is as joke we have going as we are both single, not looking to marry in the near future, spend alot of time togther and are planning to move in together one day. She even has a key to our house!

 

[immersedingrace]

I hear you. If she found out that a guy like me is interested her, she'd go "Eeeew"... then wonder what she's doing wrong!

Probably not. Crushes can be flattering even if they're not reciprocated. Unless you're a stalker, and she's heartless, she'll at the very least be flattered. Maybe she has a crush on you too...or maybe she never thought about it and you're letting her know might spark something.

 

[knownbeforetime]

I think I'm losing my steam for Sam...

 

[Keri]

Cute cat, btw... Off topic I know, but I had to say it.

 

[knownbeforetime]

He's my miracle kitty...

 

[FriarTuck]

did his daddy have a narry yareathra

 

[Leah]

Though, I don't have any crushes at the moment, I'll be happy to tell ya'll some of the men I've had a crush on.

1. Eric Mun (He's a Korean actor who's by far, the most gorgeous and cutest man I've ever seen)

2. Kenny Yu (A moderator for an interracial group)

And I'll admit that I did have a short crush on one member here. His name is Holo and he has a pretty cool personality. I've read some of his post and he's definately not annoying nor arrogant. .

Ok, that's all I'm gonna say for now.

 

[JPPT1974]

I had a crush or crushes in my teen years on Eric Idle of Monty Python and Pierce Brosnan.
When they were on Around the World in 80 Days!

 

[septemberskies]

Probably not. Crushes can be flattering even if they're not reciprocated. Unless you're a stalker, and she's heartless, she'll at the very least be flattered. Maybe she has a crush on you too...or maybe she never thought about it and you're letting her know might spark something.

I couldn't agree more

 

[knownbeforetime]

did his daddy have a narry yareathra

King of the Hill rox! I love it whenever Hank says, "I'm gonna kick your @$$!"

 

[Keri]

I like how crushes make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

 

[Jazzman]

I've had a crush (though we tend to use the term 'fancying' in the the UK) on about 12 girls (!) In my lifetime. I think I'm more prone to them due to my emotional 'touchy feely' disposition. I suppose that when I was at school that you could call them cute harmless affections. However when your a university and have decided that you want to remain single for the duration (as I have), 'crushes' can be extremely annoying. There have been many times when I've wished that the feelings I've had for sombody would just disappear.

Anybody have any ways of dealing with these 'unwanted' feelings?

 

[sherri]

My first crush lasted about 15 years (no kidding). I was absolutly infatuated. Since then I've only really seriously fallen for one other guy.

 

[knownbeforetime]

A dream I had the other night. Apparently, I'm not losing my steam for Sam... Le sigh...

Me and my circle of friends were at my church. It looked like we were just hanging out; ie, no church services going on. A friend of mine sat me down in a chair next to a guy that I have a crush on. Then, my friend and another friend rolled out this banner but I couldn't see what was written on it. Then, my friends rolled up the blinds so the sunlight could come through. The sunlight made writing appear on the banner and it revealed my crush for the guy next to me.

Immediately, I run out of the room from embarassment and, pretty soon, I don't know where I am. Somehow, my crush finds me and says it's ok, he likes me too. And that's about it...

BTW, this is my favorite thread because I can gush in anonymity and not gross out those around me.

 

[G4M5Y5]

Sure I've had crushes. Most in highschool. I had one crush on a CF member (actually I don't think he is anymore) quite sometime ago. I told him of my crush though, and we talked it out, and well just decided to be friends...long story...but they wouldn't be crushes if they didn't hurt (a.k.a. crush your heart). I got over it and am just awaiting the next crush or who knows LOVE.

 

[Moluku]

I like how crushes make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

I couldn't agree with you more!