• Starting today August 7th, 2024, in order to post in the Married Couples, Courting Couples, or Singles forums, you will not be allowed to post if you have your Marital status designated as private. Announcements will be made in the respective forums as well but please note that if yours is currently listed as Private, you will need to submit a ticket in the Support Area to have yours changed.

  • Christian Forums is looking to bring on new moderators to the CF Staff Team! If you have been an active member of CF for at least three months with 200 posts during that time, you're eligible to apply! This is a great way to give back to CF and keep the forums running smoothly! If you're interested, you can submit your application here!

Court rules Christian Mingle must allow LGBT couples

Chrystal-J

The one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Site Supporter
Oct 19, 2004
13,497
6,804
Detroit
✟947,140.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Widowed
Politics
US-Others
Sacramento, Calif., Jul 6, 2016 / 03:02 am (CNA/EWTN News).- A California court ruled last week that ChristianMingle and it’s affiliate faith-based dating websites must allow LGBT singles to search and be matched with people of the same gender.

The ruling comes at the end of a 2.5 year legal battle after two gay men noticed in 2013 that new members to the popular dating site, which boasts over 15 million users, could only search for dates of the opposite sex.

Link: http://www.catholicnewsagency.com/n...-allow-lgbt-couples-94915/?platform=hootsuite
 

Chrystal-J

The one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Site Supporter
Oct 19, 2004
13,497
6,804
Detroit
✟947,140.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Widowed
Politics
US-Others
How long will it be before someone's suing the Catholic church to perform gay marriages? :|
 
Upvote 0

pdudgeon

Traditional Catholic
Site Supporter
In Memory Of
Aug 4, 2005
37,852
12,354
South East Virginia, US
✟493,233.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Widowed
Politics
US-Republican
  • Like
Reactions: ml5363
Upvote 0

Sweet Tooth

Active Member
Jun 3, 2016
364
175
40
Miami, Florida
✟2,642.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
In Relationship
Christian Mingle is too ambiguous. Decades ago, this wouldn't be a topic for discussion whereas today you have people who openly live a homosexual lifestyle, consider themselves Christian, and there are Christian denominations who see no problem with it.
 
Upvote 0

Michie

Well-Known Member
Site Supporter
Feb 5, 2002
178,725
64,123
Woods
✟5,622,518.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Married
Politics
US-Others
I don't know but it is getting depressing. There seems to be a real push for Christianity to conform. But it does not work that way.
How long will it be before someone's suing the Catholic church to perform gay marriages? :|
 
Upvote 0

Tallguy88

We shall see the King when he comes!
Site Supporter
Jan 13, 2009
32,479
7,740
Parts Unknown
✟263,016.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Single
I didn't read the article or holding. But here's the problem with Christian Mingle. It isn't a Christian site or organization. It's a targeted dating service and their primary goal is to make money. They own many other niche dating sites, such as Jdate (for Jews), LDSmingle (mormons), BBWpersonals (for people who like to date overweight people), black singles, silver singles, and about 20 more.

They serve Mammon, not God. I've been wary of them ever since I first heard their commercials and their tag line "Find God's match for you". What arrogance to claim their for-profit dating service is somehow an expression of the divine will.
 
Upvote 0

Chrystal-J

The one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Site Supporter
Oct 19, 2004
13,497
6,804
Detroit
✟947,140.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Widowed
Politics
US-Others
We must be prepared for a persecution of the church. Like in John 15:20 Remember the word that I said to you: 'A servant is not greater than his lord.' If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will keep yours also.
 
Upvote 0

Tallguy88

We shall see the King when he comes!
Site Supporter
Jan 13, 2009
32,479
7,740
Parts Unknown
✟263,016.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Single
Also of note is that the company already offered same sex dating options on some of its other dating sites.

So they can't really claim a conscious clause for one part of their business and not another. Either they have a legitimate religious objection to homosexual dating, or they don't.
 
Upvote 0

Tallguy88

We shall see the King when he comes!
Site Supporter
Jan 13, 2009
32,479
7,740
Parts Unknown
✟263,016.00
Country
United States
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Single
We must be prepared for a persecution of the church. Like in John 15:20 Remember the word that I said to you: 'A servant is not greater than his lord.' If they persecuted me, they will also persecute you. If they kept my word, they will keep yours also.
I agree. But this is a poor example. They already offered gay dating services on JDate, which is owned by the same company. This company doesn't keep God's word.
 
  • Like
Reactions: s_gunter
Upvote 0

Chrystal-J

The one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
Site Supporter
Oct 19, 2004
13,497
6,804
Detroit
✟947,140.00
Country
United States
Gender
Female
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Widowed
Politics
US-Others
I agree. But this is a poor example. They already offered gay dating services on JDate, which is owned by the same company. This company doesn't keep God's word.

I was referring to the possibility of someone suing the Catholic Church to perform gay weddings. I see priests going to jail in the future.
 
  • Like
Reactions: pdudgeon
Upvote 0

bill5

Well-Known Member
Jul 30, 2011
6,091
2,197
✟70,699.00
Faith
Agnostic
Marital Status
Private
I didn't read the article or holding. But here's the problem with Christian Mingle. It isn't a Christian site or organization.
Near as I can tell, that first part isn't true. Granted it's not like they're going to ask for credentials, but it is targeted and intended for Christians.

And that said, not all Christian denominations have an issue with homosexuality per se, so the boo-hoo-I'm-oppressed morons kind of have a point, lame as it is.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Sweet Tooth
Upvote 0

Rhamiel

Member of the Round Table
Nov 11, 2006
41,182
9,432
ohio
✟248,621.00
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
Single
Christian Mingle is too ambiguous. Decades ago, this wouldn't be a topic for discussion whereas today you have people who openly live a homosexual lifestyle, consider themselves Christian, and there are Christian denominations who see no problem with it.

you have a point

and Tallguy has a point about it being a for profit site that has other sites that do allow gay matches......


but I just dislike the Government going so rough on what "is Christian" and what is not

they are going to use this as a tool against us, as a precedent

uhg, I sound paranoid, sorry
 
Upvote 0

Sweet Tooth

Active Member
Jun 3, 2016
364
175
40
Miami, Florida
✟2,642.00
Gender
Male
Faith
Catholic
Marital Status
In Relationship
you have a point

and Tallguy has a point about it being a for profit site that has other sites that do allow gay matches......


but I just dislike the Government going so rough on what "is Christian" and what is not

they are going to use this as a tool against us, as a precedent

uhg, I sound paranoid, sorry

Oh, I do believe that. Replace Christian with another faith and this mostly gets thrown out of court.
 
  • Like
Reactions: pdudgeon
Upvote 0

LoAmmi

Dispassionate
Mar 12, 2012
26,944
9,715
✟217,033.00
Faith
Judaism
Marital Status
Married
I was referring to the possibility of someone suing the Catholic Church to perform gay weddings. I see priests going to jail in the future.

The First Amendment will protect the Catholic Church in this instance. There has never been a ruling in this country that required any religious institution to perform a marriage they didn't approve of. This includes when people sued for interracial marriage or even when two people who belonged to the religion sued. The courts will tell the people they can be married by the state but will not force your church to perform a marriage.
 
Upvote 0