Wait, wait, wait - before this thread gets derailed, I am interested.
Somehow, turning a bed lamp is a change that is not an "Evolution", but the instinct to utilize the lamp for survival is Evolution - because more that use artificial light survive than those that don't...
I think this is interesting; as I said "there is a selection pressure for Evolutionists to make Evolution interesting" (because the ones that can't make it interesting are forgotten) - somehow instinct develops about which is a valid way to determine "Evolution" (as here, is the instinct as to how to say Evolution - which would be, if it survived, a more popular way of saying it, depending on how interesting it was made).
I think you are on the verge of making sense, that choices about instinct made over a lifetime, influence the epigenome of a given species, never to abandon their kind, but to make more of it (that kind); it's sort of a way of saying "learning is not uniformly universal".