WHAT DOES IT MATTER THAT “first Lazarus is taken, and the rich man has 5 sons, and Moses and the prophets etc?” Which SPECIFIC WORDS are you referring to that Jesus used?
WHAT IS YOUR MEANING HERE? “When people can't be bothered they end up making the parables say what they have already decided to believe.
” Who’s made up which parables. Jesus said that he only spoke what he heard His Father speak, so I don’t know what you think you are trying to prove, or disprove…
As AllTalkNoAction tried to point out, this 'parable' is about the 'kingdom' being taken from the Jews and given to the Gentiles. It has nothing to do with paradise, heaven, or hell.
When looking at the gospel accounts, or any scripture for that matter, you need to look at 'who' Jesus was speaking to. He wasn't telling this parable to the general population, the sinners, He was speaking to the Pharisee's, and they knew exactly what He meant.
Parables are not meant to be easily understood. See what Jesus said here..
(Mat 13:10 ESV) Then the disciples came and said to him, "Why do you speak to them in parables?"
(Mat 13:11 ESV) And he answered them, "To you it has been given to know the secrets of the kingdom of heaven, but to them it has not been given.
(Mat 13:12 ESV) For to the one who has, more will be given, and he will have an abundance, but from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.
(Mat 13:13 ESV) This is why I speak to them in parables, because seeing they do not see, and hearing they do not hear, nor do they understand.
(Mat 13:14 ESV) Indeed, in their case the prophecy of Isaiah is fulfilled that says: "'You will indeed hear but never understand, and you will indeed see but never perceive.
(Mat 13:15 ESV) For this people's heart has grown dull, and with their ears they can barely hear, and their eyes they have closed, lest they should see with their eyes and hear with their ears and understand with their heart and turn, and I would heal them.'
(Mat 13:16 ESV) But blessed are your eyes, for they see, and your ears, for they hear.
(Mat 13:17 ESV) For truly, I say to you, many prophets and righteous people longed to see what you see, and did not see it, and to hear what you hear, and did not hear it.
Jesus did not always speak clearly about the Kingdom. So, you really don't have to worry why people speak about this parable as if it's about 'paradise', because clearly (lol!) it's not. Here's a great article explaining the symbolism in this parable...
http://www.godfire.net/eby/abrahams.html