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If you took the amount of times every human has blinked in their lives, then multiplied that by 20, it would still not come close to half the amount of times Christians use the word "sin" for things. Is every single negative thing about "sinning"? Some people don't want to hear about the Bible because they've heard it all thousands of times before and don't need to again, or maybe it doesn't fit the situation.The reason why we reject that idea is because due to our sin nature, we are predisposed to rebelling against God. It's the reason why many people act so hostile and belligerent whenever Jesus or the Bible is brought up. We prefer to stay in darkness and want to run from the light.
Ahhhhh yes, another thing I get from a lot of Christians, "This thing is happening because God wants you to turn to him!!" You know - and I think it was from this forum - but this young guy told me about how he had really bad acne growing up, so because of that, he never asked any girls out, let alone even let girls know he liked them, because he didn't want girls thinking, "Oh great, the kid with the acne likes me of all the women in the world..." Then he said that was all because "God didn't want him asking out a bunch of girls." ....????It's not the universe. The universe isn't something that controls everything. It just is. God created the universe. And perhaps He's asking you to turn to Him instead of worrying over your future relationships.
Really? That's why..? It wasn't because he got unlucky with acne? And he was given the life-ruining acne to hit on women? Wow, that a horrible way of reaching that goal. What about everyone else with perfectly smooth faces? What's "God's plan" for them? It's like when people thank God for all the wealth they have, and what about people who have nothing?
Back to the "asking me to turn to him" thing. Are you saying these embarrassing moments with chicks is God making that stuff happen on purpose? Or are you referring to something else?
God made Lucifer, God made imperfect humans, God knew the future. How does that not mean that God is the overarching creator of all these problems? He also 'puts souls into fetuses before they're born' as imperfect humans.Of course. We're sinners at our core. We tend to go after the superficial rather than what's real. Just so you know though, just because something seems "high quality" doesn't mean it is.
The pay is not particularly impressive, but it's sustainable for now. I'll have to work elsewhere eventually anyway. My co-workers are pretty friendly people, but this week was absolutely nightmarish in terms the work we had to get done, and we couldn't even get it all done because we were given too much. Deadlines are part of any job, you can't run from that. My team lead just happens to have that adamant personality where it's all "these are the rules, follow them no matter what" even if the rules don't add up in any way whatsoever. I hate crap like that. I never, ever get to explain myself without being cut off and told I'm wrong before I even explained anything.It sounds like you work in a toxic work environment. Maybe you should consider looking for work elsewhere. You don't need to spite these people, but for your well-being, it might not be a bad idea to look for an out.
I'm actually nervous of going back on Monday, because I'm afraid I'm gonna say something I really don't want to, assuming that anything gets brought up.
This is how thisI don't mean the practical rules that are made to ensure people's safety and well-being. I mean basing your identity on looks, how much money you make, how much sex you have, whether or not you have a spouse, over things you can't control, ect.
How is he helping people born into starving countries? How did he help people that were trapped in those two towers before they collapsed? How is he helping people that were raped and - according to this religion - must have the child even if they don't want to? Adoption doesn't undo the pain of those women having to carry a child they didn't ask for, then painfully having to birth it out.God loves you for you. He knows you aren't perfect, and that's why He sent His son to save you from your sins. Once you understand the depth of His love, you can't help but want to love Him back the same way and want to be like Him. And even though you'll fall short in that sense, that doesn't change how He feels about you. He knows you accepted Him into your life and will help you every step of the way.
This just stacks the confusion. I gave examples of how people see virginity in a hypocritical way, and you said that's why we need God. I don't get that one.See above.
He was possessed but still completely responsible for his own actions? Riiiiight. He felt bad either way, it's not like repenting is gonna undo what's been done, and what was done is the central event in Christianity.Satan did enter into Judas, but Judas was still responsible for his own actions. Again, he could've repented for his sins but chose to give into despair and kill himself.
This falls back to God knowing the future before creating anything, Also, like I brought up MANY times, did God really want a perfect 100% believe rate from humanity? You can't have that when you give everyone free will and have people birthed from different parts of the world. You can't go left and right at the same time.God certainly didn't want that for him. God is a god of mercy, but He is also a god of justice. Even the smallest of sins is too much for someone to get into heaven. And once again, that's why He sent His only begotten Son to die. Jesus was the perfect sacrifice, for not only did He not sin, but He was also divine. By paying the price on our behalf, we're washed clean and can enter heaven.
Soooooooo... then... maybe he should not have put that tree there..?Things probably would be way better than they are now on earth. No death. No sin. ect. Praise be to God though, despite Adam and Eve's screw up, He still makes things work according to His will and will bring all who believe into Heaven.
I already have. Lying.You seem like an intelligent man. I'm sure you can think of something.
This is all true, but just like Christianity, I don't know if I have the personality and mental setup for a partner. I find it interesting when people (and this doesn't include you) talk about this like if I don't find a wife, the world will end or something, like it's my civic duty or I have a gun to my head. What happens if I stay single forever? Is God gonna get furious at me?It's always worth it to try. Part of being a man is learning from your failures and becoming stronger through them. Plus, women respect a man who makes an attempt and shrugs off a rejection. Even if she's not into you, perhaps she'd introduce to you a friend who might be.
That may come one day, but it is something I would never hold my breath on. This is what happens when God makes 'different' people.Choose to see how God sees you. Once I did, I became a lot less nervous around women, and I even met one recently where I can't help but feel cool and confident around her. Women *love* cool and confident. At that point, things like your looks, your job, and how much money you make aren't nearly as big a factor. (Not saying they aren't a factor. But women *can* overlook those kind of things if there's chemistry.)
Does he help people who don't believe?He made us because He loves us, as well as so we can glorify and love Him. Once you understand who He is, you can't help but want to rejoice in His presence and worship Him, for He is the only one who deserves that kind of praise.
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