- Sep 11, 2022
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- Country
- United Kingdom
- Faith
- Christian
- Marital Status
- Single
So I wasn't really looking for a relationship or girlfriend I had pretty much given up on that and accepted single life as the norm for me... I have always shot myself in the foot when it came to women like saying the wrong thing or doing the opposite to impress her etc etc.
At my drop in center there is this lady who I find attractive and at first I just saw here as everybody else and I didn't really take any interest in her because I thought what would she want with me and that I'm not her type until she took an interest in me. Like an idiot I wasn't expecting it and whole situation took me by surprise and I also got shy and not knowing what to say to her. I thought to myself.
I'll wait until get my barrings and go speak to her and interact but I think I've waited to long and she has lost interest and some other guy has moved on to her but I can't tell if its just friendly or whether he wants to date her. What made things worse is that I remembered her telling me that she likes cars so I decided to paint some art work of a car for her and when I showed it to her I just so happened to paint the car she hates.
I don't think I'm ready for a relationship because I've had my mind set for so long now of accepting that nobody would be interested in me and I've got used to it.
I would like her to know I am interested but I don't want to come over as creepy or harassing in any way or make her feel uncomfortable.
Its nearly Christmas so I think I'll get her a Christmas card and I'll just put a kiss in it that way she might know I like her.
My main goal is to let her know I like her to see if she might still be interested in me and if she isn't then everything is cool and I can move on I just don't want to lose a potential opportunity for happiness.
What would you do?
At my drop in center there is this lady who I find attractive and at first I just saw here as everybody else and I didn't really take any interest in her because I thought what would she want with me and that I'm not her type until she took an interest in me. Like an idiot I wasn't expecting it and whole situation took me by surprise and I also got shy and not knowing what to say to her. I thought to myself.
I'll wait until get my barrings and go speak to her and interact but I think I've waited to long and she has lost interest and some other guy has moved on to her but I can't tell if its just friendly or whether he wants to date her. What made things worse is that I remembered her telling me that she likes cars so I decided to paint some art work of a car for her and when I showed it to her I just so happened to paint the car she hates.
I don't think I'm ready for a relationship because I've had my mind set for so long now of accepting that nobody would be interested in me and I've got used to it.
I would like her to know I am interested but I don't want to come over as creepy or harassing in any way or make her feel uncomfortable.
Its nearly Christmas so I think I'll get her a Christmas card and I'll just put a kiss in it that way she might know I like her.
My main goal is to let her know I like her to see if she might still be interested in me and if she isn't then everything is cool and I can move on I just don't want to lose a potential opportunity for happiness.
What would you do?
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