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Help Needed! How to stop a friend from suicide? (Unsure of the validity)

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Here is the case: A Christian girl in Egypt has a friend who wants to commit suicide on 2/2.
Keep in mind:
1. Her friend might not be a Christian (so please brainstorm to find all ways to help her if she is non-Christian).
2. Her friend might not be honest and playing with her emotions or the other way around, she might be serious.
3. It is apparent that there is NO suicide help-line in Egypt.
4. It looks like the Christian girl doesn't know what to do, she knows, but maybe afraid of calling any authority, most authorities in Egypt are hopeless anyway.
5. I'm not their friend, i might only transfer your advices to the Christian girl.

Pray for her please.
 
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It's a sad state of affair that people in egypt have no access to suicide hotlines.

I think that person should get into touch with another suicide help organisation, perhaps via online chat.

In such cases, going to experts is always preferable to trying things on your own.
 
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The best thing your friend can do for her suicidal friend is to spend time with her, as much as possible, and don't let her be alone on days around the potential suicide date. Suicides are more likely to happen when a person is alone.
 
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It's a sad state of affair that people in egypt have no access to suicide hotlines.

I think that person should get into touch with another suicide help organisation, perhaps via online chat.

In such cases, going to experts is always preferable to trying things on your own.

Trust me, Egypt is not a country where you can find those specialists easily, but i will tell her your suggestion, thank you so much.
 
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That's a side of the problem, is, I don't have the full story in hands...
I'll link some articles about suicide I found and summarize from memory.

Certain traits greatly increase the risk that the suicide plan becomes reality. One trait is bipolar. Another trait is less fear of pain that could exhibit as cutting herself or hobbies that risk pain or injury (e.g. MMA fighting).

The friend of the person needs to ask direct questions about the suicide plans and reasons without trying to debate them.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/curious/201405/why-do-people-kill-themselves-new-warning-signs
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fighting-fear/201506/some-reasons-why-people-kill-themselves
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blo...201004/the-six-reasons-people-attempt-suicide
https://www.wikihow.com/Talk-Someone-out-of-Suicide
 
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I'll link some articles about suicide I found and summarize from memory.

Certain traits greatly increase the risk that the suicide plan becomes reality. One trait is bipolar. Another trait is less fear of pain that could exhibit as cutting herself or hobbies that risk pain or injury (e.g. MMA fighting).

The friend of the person needs to ask direct questions about the suicide plans and reasons without trying to debate them.

Why Do People Kill Themselves? New Warning Signs
Some Reasons Why People Kill Themselves
The Six Reasons People Attempt Suicide
How to Talk Someone out of Suicide

Thank you so much for brainstorming for her case, i actually told her about that probability, sorry for the late reply as well.
 
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The best thing your friend can do for her suicidal friend is to spend time with her, as much as possible, and don't let her be alone on days around the potential suicide date. Suicides are more likely to happen when a person is alone.

I told her that point too, thank you so much.
 
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