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I did not do that. Although I did say that to stand a minister down without establishing that there are any grounds for doing so, is "not loving," and I'll stand by that.To set about and judge this particular incident as abusive was inappropriate.
I didn't do that either. I made some suggestions about how that might verse be applied in healthy and appropriate ways today, and about where we need to be careful to have good boundaries in place.To dismiss Titus is also inappropriate.
I would hope so, but that's not what you described. You described a situation where they "would not allow a brother to continue in Christian leadership."Any good church would wrap around anyone who felt to step down .
True. But it does have economic implications. In leaving behind other ways of making a living, and coming to rely entirely on the church, as the necessary outcome of giving our lives entirely to the church, for many of us, we are very vulnerable (economically and in other ways) to mistreatment by our churches. For example, my church is my "employer," my landlord (sort of; or at least, the owner of the house in which I live), and the community in which the vast majority of my time, energy, headspace and emotional investment is expended. The church therefore needs to realise that I am particularly vulnerable to the church in all sorts of ways; and to take its responsibility for my safety and wellbeing seriously.Leadership in the church was never meant to be a commercial decision.
That means, among other things, that codes of conduct, disciplinary processes, and so on, need to be transparent and just. Including any standards relating to our family relationships.
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