If I proclaim the wonderful news of the resurrection to you, do I have authority over you?
Not today you don't; nor I over you.
But women had few rights in those days; I doubt that it was considered "proper" for a single woman to go into a roomful of men and tell them what was what.
If I smile sweetly and influence you to calm down, do I have authority over you?
Have you read the book of Esther?
It was against the law to approach the king without being summoned. Esther asked the Jews to fast and pray for 3 days - as she would. Then she was going to the king - though it was against the law - and "if I perish, I perish", Esther 4:16.
There was a lot more than "smiling sweetly" involved.
Jews still celebrate her courage each year in the feast of Purim.
If I tell you excitedly that you should come and see something that I just saw, do I have authority over you?
Again, this was about a woman approaching a man - actually a whole townful of men - and saying "come and see."
If I tell you something that you did not know before, do I have authority over you?
No, but you are teaching me - and some say that Paul forbade that as well.
None of the above told any man what to do. The information presented gave them an opportunity to choose what they might do, but it did not command them to do anything.
Well all I can say is that if you have a Minister/vicar who
commands you what to do and how to live your life, you're in the wrong church.
This does not happen.
Esther could never have commanded the king to do anything--to the contrary, the king could have executed her if she had tried!
He could have executed her for approaching her without permission; disobeying his law.
There is no doubt that, in that scenario, Esther took the initiative. She even told Mordecai to tell the Jews to fast and pray for her.
We must be careful not to allow our own opinions, particularly those formed within the modern decadence of society, to influence our understanding of Bible doctrines.
You mean just as Jesus didn't allow his beliefs and society's opinions, to influence his ministry and teaching of God's word?
In that society, women were even lower than 2nd best. They had very few rights, if any at all.
They "belonged" to their fathers while they were young and handed over in marriage as soon as it could be arranged. They could be divorced on a whim. They weren't educated or asked what career they wanted. Their job was to provide, and care for, children. They were unclean at certain times of the month and after the birth of a child. If that child was a girl, they were unclean for twice as long.
They were considered to be unreliable witnesses and not asked to go to a court of law.
These are the beliefs and attitudes that existed in Jesus' time - promoted by religious leaders and well as society. Pharisees used to thank God every day that they had not been born a woman.
Yet into this society came Jesus.
He taught that in the beginning God had made both male
and female and that men should not divorce.
He touched an unclean, bleeding woman and called her "daughter".
He spoke to a Samaritan woman and revealed to her that he was the Messiah.
He allowed Mary to sit at his feet and learn from him - in just the same way that student Rabbis would learn from their masters. What's more, he said that she had chosen the best thing.
He
chose a woman to be the first witness to his resurrection. Not his disciples, the future leaders of the church - an "unreliable" woman.
He healed the daughter of a foreign, and therefore Gentile, woman.
Jesus loved and empowered women in a way that his society did not.
He also told his followers that they were to love as he loved.
So what does the church do? For some time they "banned" women from proclaiming the Good News from a pulpit - and some still do so even now.
It was many years before some sections of the church would ordain woman - and some still won't, even now. Women were, have been and sometimes are treated appallingly for daring to want to obey God. Although it's quite alright to send them onto the mission field, (where, incidentally, Gladys Aylward founded several churches.)
Women on these forums who have said that they are preachers and/or ordained have been told that they are being disobedient, that they are sinning or deluded, that God allows such sins because we are in end times or quite simply that they are wrong and should not be doing what God has called them to do.
So much for following Jesus' example and showing love.