Goatee, I'm a married man for a second round. Both our past spouses were cheaters. And God made a provision that we find each other. That isn't my point other than it's miserable to be a on the receiving end of a cheating spouse, but what is the point is this. We rent out an apartment attached to our house and have an awesome tenant over there. He brought in a woman who supposedly was suffering from cancer and supposedly had less than a year to live. Very very nice looking woman with pretty eyes. We all prayed for her unknown to her and she is still alive some two years later. Again not the full story, try to get a visual on this part though. I'm a married man and retired. My wife works several days of the week and the tenant works every week day. I do chores, cut the grass etc during the day. I found this woman attractive, very attractive. One day in the summer while I was cutting grass on my tractor, she comes out on the back porch, real chatty, flashy pretty eyes and in a see through nighty and panties. I mean I could see right through. I could see her breasts and the outline of her pubic hair line. So I talked with her looking at her eyes and at the trees behind her. We talked for maybe 15 minutes . I got back on my tractor and finished cutting the grass. In the back of my head the Holy Spirit is saying she is troubled and also she is "is" trouble if you pursue her. From that day I went on a prayer vigil, my concern was is she saved. She later moved out and I still prayed. So now I have an unresolved opportunity to speak the gospel to her, I felt I missed had missed that. Fast forward a year or so and I hear this crashing in my driveway. I look out and there is her car stuffed in a bush in our front yard and up against an oak tree. She had 0 reason to be here. In my mind the Holy Spirit is saying " now David go speak to her", I went out there to find her drunk. I brought her in the house, got her over a period of time to speak and walk ok. Her bare legs ( it was summer again and I texted my wife immediately she was here) were on my couch in a little sun dress but I spoke about Jesus Christ with her. As I spoke about the truth of Jesus and about the things of her life I knew, she needed to be in alignment with God. I watched her face change back and forth from pretty to strained, from pretty eyes to wide pupil, gray in tone, then tears. Then she wanted to ask me a question, do you know what the question was ? How do I feel about abortion ! She was pregnant by a cop from another town. "She is Troubled and she is trouble if you pursue her". True story as God is my witness. But she has two seeds planted in her, one from a cop from another town and one of the gospel of Jesus Christ.
Goatee, listen to the Holy Spirit, pray to Him and listen. You do not have to ever touch this woman again. And Goatee, no man has ever lived that is hornier than I have been in my lifetime, I've been a walking hormone most of my life. I don't act on it and the Holy Spirit makes sure I don't. Imagine if I had and that was my child inside her. And incidentally, my wife knows the whole story all of it, she has prayed with me for this woman..