I don't find this funny as someone seems to have but true, at least as experienced in my own life.. However, the issue is I think Goatee's conscience is seered. The question is by whom ? Is it his own mind or the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit directs out paths If We Listen and respond. If not, we are in for a miserable time. He really can make it so we will lose our desire or will to commit a certain sin in spite of our flesh wanting it. It's the power of discernment at work, but He instills this, not us.. This is for the born again believer. Not born again, we try to do it ourselves, which is about impossible. He breaks the will to commit the sin. There are many born again Catholics and many who are not because while they live with sacraments and such and live the Christian life sort of, they never personally accepted Jesus Christ and He requires this, being in a personal relationship with Him..
Well obviously working with a priest didn't do the trick. Sex issues are more powerful than a priest can deal with, they're human too and God knows they certainly have their own issues. Have you, Goatee, tried direct contact with the Holy Spirit and asked for His help in this matter ? I mean address it to Him, as in "Holy Spirit, I'm seeking your will in this matter I have " etc etc. To understand the situation and to see His will in this ? He is just to reveal His will and revealing that to you can shatter your will to further continue in what you are doing, which is only satisfying your old sin nature and undermining your spiritual walk and masking your view of Gods plan in your life... And by the way, do you love this woman ? Be honest above all else. Be honest with God, with her and with yourself. God ( Father/ Son/ Holy Spirit) can take all this and turn it around to good. But you need to deal with Him directly. If that is against the teachings of your church, I'm sorry but I had to say it. And I believe you need to hear it, in the name of Jesus I pray for you today Goatee.