alkaloid
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My ex didn't want to change/grow. I was going through therapy for the past couple of years to help with my depression and I was trying to help him with his (I was totally co-dependent at the time and didn't realize you can't fix people) and he refused to change. I eventually caught on to how much of a narcissist he was and how he started disrespecting me. I decided to call it quits. 2 months after filing for divorce, I found out he was cheating on me for months, which hurt a lot.
He was definitely a lesson for me and as painful of an experience as it was, God put him in my life for a reason. I was able to pull myself out of my lifelong depression after healing from my divorce and I'm actually really grateful for it. Also through my healing journey I found my way back to Christ after being an atheist for about 16 years. Now I look forward to finding someone who can love me almost just as much as he does Jesus
He was definitely a lesson for me and as painful of an experience as it was, God put him in my life for a reason. I was able to pull myself out of my lifelong depression after healing from my divorce and I'm actually really grateful for it. Also through my healing journey I found my way back to Christ after being an atheist for about 16 years. Now I look forward to finding someone who can love me almost just as much as he does Jesus
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