WHAT IS CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE?

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We hear a lot about Christian marriages being different, but what is it that makes a marriage "Christian"?
A good marriage would be between a blind wife and a deaf husband.Michel de Montaigne1
Marriage has gotten quite a bad reputation over the years. The butt of a seemingly infinite number of jokes, matrimony is a source of endless social commentary, gender politics, and governmental debate.
Love: A temporary insanity curable by marriage.Ambrose Bierce2
In the United States, marriage has fallen upon particularly hard times. Fewer and fewer people are choosing to marry.4 In fact, less than half of current US households are made up of married couples.5 The percentage of Americans who have never married is growing6 while the number of couples living together without marrying is increasing exponentially.7Meanwhile, more and more children are born to single mothers.8
One should always be in love. That’s the reason one should never marry.Oscar Wilde3
To top it all off, America still has the highest divorce rate among Western nations and the highest incidence of single-parent families of any industrialized nation.9 There’s no denying that the landscape of the American family has changed radically over the past fifty years.

MARRIAGE AND CULTURE​

These statistics raise questions about the value and meaning of marriage in contemporary American culture. Given changes in reproductive technology, shifts in cultural attitudes about sexual morality, and the apparent failure of marriage as an ideal relationship, has marriage become irrelevant?

Though it might seem so, sociologists Mark Regnerus and Jeremy Ueker recently reported that the American youth are as interested in marriage as at any time—more than 95 percent intend to marry someday.10
But from romance novels to reality TV to movies, unrealistic expectations and false understandings about love, marriage, and romance are easily perpetuated. As a result, both those seeking out a marriage partner and those trying to stay in a marriage relationship struggle with misunderstandings of the definition of that relationship itself.
Can the Christian faith make a difference in this understanding and the quest for a meaningful marriage?

MARRIAGE AND FAITH​


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I’m glad you found it edifying. :)

I have always enjoyed Catholic teachings on the role of women and marriage and family.

I think Catholics have always done such a good job with topics like this.

Mary Harrington is a Catholic woman I very much look up to as a Christian woman. She is one of the leaders of our time. Lately she's really been inspiring me...
 
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Is this the lady you are referring to?



No... that's not it. Hang on - links:

^^^ this is her blog


^^^ she does some writing here


^^^ a recent talk she gave

She also has books
 
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These statistics raise questions about the value and meaning of marriage in contemporary American culture
I have a book here called the Joy of Intimacy. The author feels a lot of failed marriages has to do with porn and false expectation of what marriage is suppose to be all about. The power of a praying wife is a good book also.

The Power of a Praying Wife Book of Prayers

 
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