We had a beautiful wedding, and we both worked on the details, together. My dad paid for the wedding, and probably the only thing I wish that had been done differently, is not having such a huge gathering. My parents wanted everyone they ever knew to be there, it seemed. But, then I thought, it isn't only about my husband and me, it's about all the people who brought us to where we are. Another regret, is that my grandmother (my dad's mom) wasn't there, she passed away a few years ago, and she would have loved to see me get married.