My ex is has been involved with a married man for a few years now. It's what led to our divorce and over time our teenage daughters have discovered their mother's extracurricular activities (our two younger sons do not know). My daughter's disapprove of her behavior but obviously there is little they can do about it. They often complain about it to me and my response is to mainly listen but I do tell them that behavior is wrong. My question is this, is it OK for me to tell them that? I try to keep my feelings about their mother to myself. I often have to remind them that they need respect and obey their mother regardless of how they feel about her. But I also want them to know that certain behavior is not acceptable. As I've stated in past threads, I try hard to be like Christ, but often fail. Is sharing my thoughts on this behavior crossing a line? Should I keep my opinions to myself? I certainly don't want to see my children act in the same way.