Ok, here is some background. I am in my mid thirties, still single and it is really starting to get to me because most of my friends are married and they have families and I feel like i am left out to dry because I have no-one to spend that Saturday night with.
So. I started talking to this one girl (want to say since January) and it seems we have alot of the same common interest. I met her through work, but due to working for a company that is mostly remote, I rarely see her in person, maybe a few days a month when we have our required in office days. Any who, I am still in the beginning phase of talking to her as I want to get to know her. Fast forward to Good Friday, she was in the office and I had a very nice conversation with her and she was like hey you going to Church and I said yeah, and she asked if she could come along. I was like totally, then she asked me about what version of the Bible the church uses and I said NIV. She rather go to a Church that uses KJV, which is cool. I was like if you go to your Church lets meet up for Lunch afterwards or something. Unfortunately that didnt happen because it was Easter weekend.
I enjoy talking to her, I wish i had more opportunities to get to know her. I been praying for that Opportunity to really talk to her again, but like most people you wish you can get your prayers answered right there and now.
Its going to be a dumb question, should I keep praying for an opportunity or should I try to create my own opportunity next time i see her in person?
I am not really good at being that guy that can be like "Hey Girl whats up" so it would definitely take me out my comfortable zone, which is probably why I haven't really had experience with girls/women.
So. I started talking to this one girl (want to say since January) and it seems we have alot of the same common interest. I met her through work, but due to working for a company that is mostly remote, I rarely see her in person, maybe a few days a month when we have our required in office days. Any who, I am still in the beginning phase of talking to her as I want to get to know her. Fast forward to Good Friday, she was in the office and I had a very nice conversation with her and she was like hey you going to Church and I said yeah, and she asked if she could come along. I was like totally, then she asked me about what version of the Bible the church uses and I said NIV. She rather go to a Church that uses KJV, which is cool. I was like if you go to your Church lets meet up for Lunch afterwards or something. Unfortunately that didnt happen because it was Easter weekend.
I enjoy talking to her, I wish i had more opportunities to get to know her. I been praying for that Opportunity to really talk to her again, but like most people you wish you can get your prayers answered right there and now.
Its going to be a dumb question, should I keep praying for an opportunity or should I try to create my own opportunity next time i see her in person?
I am not really good at being that guy that can be like "Hey Girl whats up" so it would definitely take me out my comfortable zone, which is probably why I haven't really had experience with girls/women.
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