First I would like to intoduce myself. My name is Jacob. And I came here because I don’t know what else. Every time I talk to friends about how I feel, they unknowingly make me feel worse, or more angry.
I’m somewhat young, 31 and I am single. I can honestly say I don’t like it. In fact has the years have gone by I hate it. I know that we are suppose to see singleness as a blessing. But I don’t anymore.
I have been single most of my life with 2 relationships that ended badly. And I know a lot about God in my head. But my heart doesn’t seem to get it anymore. My love life feels like a joke, I’ve been told the same thing my entire life by girls. “You’re an amazing guy but you’re just not right for me.” I feel like giving up on the idea.
So here comes the meat of my issue. I am angry at God, I’m angry at the girls that have hurt me. I flat out so angry that I don’t like myself right now. I have prayed and prayed and prayed... prayer feels empty, words of encouragement feel empty, God’s words feel empty. I have started seeing a therapist because I feel broken, I feel like there has to be something wrong with me. Why do I not deserve to find someone? (In my head I know I shouldn’t feel this way.) The worst part of it is the confusion... I know there’s faith involved. But something... some idea that all this pain, and angry will eventually lead to “life abundantly.”
Sorry for the long post.
I’m somewhat young, 31 and I am single. I can honestly say I don’t like it. In fact has the years have gone by I hate it. I know that we are suppose to see singleness as a blessing. But I don’t anymore.
I have been single most of my life with 2 relationships that ended badly. And I know a lot about God in my head. But my heart doesn’t seem to get it anymore. My love life feels like a joke, I’ve been told the same thing my entire life by girls. “You’re an amazing guy but you’re just not right for me.” I feel like giving up on the idea.
So here comes the meat of my issue. I am angry at God, I’m angry at the girls that have hurt me. I flat out so angry that I don’t like myself right now. I have prayed and prayed and prayed... prayer feels empty, words of encouragement feel empty, God’s words feel empty. I have started seeing a therapist because I feel broken, I feel like there has to be something wrong with me. Why do I not deserve to find someone? (In my head I know I shouldn’t feel this way.) The worst part of it is the confusion... I know there’s faith involved. But something... some idea that all this pain, and angry will eventually lead to “life abundantly.”
Sorry for the long post.