- Feb 11, 2019
- 15
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- Country
- United States
- Faith
- Baptist
- Marital Status
- Married
- Politics
- US-Republican
My husband and I have been married for 18 years and we have 3 children together...a 12 y/o son, a 14 y/o son, and 16 y/o daughter. My husband works 2nd shift and I work the same 2 to 3 days a week on first shift. So I am the one mostly home parenting our kids.
But we are at our wits end with our youngest. Our kids are great kids for the most part. They aren't perfect, which what kid or person is, but they are pretty well behaved kids. BUT we are having an especially hard time (at home only) with our 12 y/o son. We can't get him to listen much. We constantly tell him to do things that he knows that he should be doing...for ex: put dishes away when done with them, put tools (actual tools) away where they belong...will leave on floor which is unsafe, eats in the living room when he is not suppose to..he's leave food on the floor that has been dropped, etc. We tell him to do certain things like his chores but he will say, "I will, wait" or he will leave the doors open where it comes in from the garage even after JUST telling him to close them so we don't get mice in our house. He does so well in school. The teachers have no complaints about him at all. He listens to them and does what they tell him to do. I don't know where I went wrong in parenting him. We thought he would have learned by now. And yes we discipline him too...take things away, ground him, etc. But it only works for the time he is grounded, not for when he his ungrounded. What do we do? I never had or don't have any issues like this with my older 2 at all.
But we are at our wits end with our youngest. Our kids are great kids for the most part. They aren't perfect, which what kid or person is, but they are pretty well behaved kids. BUT we are having an especially hard time (at home only) with our 12 y/o son. We can't get him to listen much. We constantly tell him to do things that he knows that he should be doing...for ex: put dishes away when done with them, put tools (actual tools) away where they belong...will leave on floor which is unsafe, eats in the living room when he is not suppose to..he's leave food on the floor that has been dropped, etc. We tell him to do certain things like his chores but he will say, "I will, wait" or he will leave the doors open where it comes in from the garage even after JUST telling him to close them so we don't get mice in our house. He does so well in school. The teachers have no complaints about him at all. He listens to them and does what they tell him to do. I don't know where I went wrong in parenting him. We thought he would have learned by now. And yes we discipline him too...take things away, ground him, etc. But it only works for the time he is grounded, not for when he his ungrounded. What do we do? I never had or don't have any issues like this with my older 2 at all.