- Dec 13, 2015
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I'm certainly old enough to have a baby. I'm 27 going on 28 in a few months. And sometimes I'm excited and ready to see the baby. Sometimes my SO says stupid things and then I regret my pregnancy. But even without that I feel like I don't think I was ever meant to have children.
I'm not a people person really. I have nearly only child syndrome and I like being left alone to think and live my life. I feel like I'm way too selfish for kids. I was so close to getting on birth control 5 years no pregnancy them God had enough and I was given this baby.
I don't want to be a bad parent but my feelings are already somewhat of dread like my whole life is ruined and I can never live the independent life I wanted.y life has always been terrible and the one joy I e always had was this idea that one day I'd escape everyone and everything and just disappear and not deal with other people.
I frequently joke about wanting my own private island away from everyone.
Sometimes I think if women like Kim K. And trashy women can have kids and still have a life so can I.
Idk... Also don't talk about abortion or adoption. Both depress me. I feel like adoption is really advocated and pushed on people just as much as abortion and it's still not a happy situation for the one who gives up the baby. I have all these thoughts going through my brain...
I won't be hot anymore after having a kid, I won't be as valuable as women without kids and I'm not anymore now that I'm pregnant, all my time will be taken up, I can't do what I want with my life, the kid will be more important than my own life... The list goes on.
But then I think about how cute the baby will be and I'm happy.
I wish I didn't feel so conflicted like I fully wanted to be a mom. I know a single mother that has absolutely no chance of having a father and I just think wow I have a SO rn at least to help I couldn't be u. Even so she's so happy and all she wanted was to care for the baby. Me I just want to be young and have my whole life ahead of me. I can't help but feel like a failure.
I'm not a people person really. I have nearly only child syndrome and I like being left alone to think and live my life. I feel like I'm way too selfish for kids. I was so close to getting on birth control 5 years no pregnancy them God had enough and I was given this baby.
I don't want to be a bad parent but my feelings are already somewhat of dread like my whole life is ruined and I can never live the independent life I wanted.y life has always been terrible and the one joy I e always had was this idea that one day I'd escape everyone and everything and just disappear and not deal with other people.
I frequently joke about wanting my own private island away from everyone.
Sometimes I think if women like Kim K. And trashy women can have kids and still have a life so can I.
Idk... Also don't talk about abortion or adoption. Both depress me. I feel like adoption is really advocated and pushed on people just as much as abortion and it's still not a happy situation for the one who gives up the baby. I have all these thoughts going through my brain...
I won't be hot anymore after having a kid, I won't be as valuable as women without kids and I'm not anymore now that I'm pregnant, all my time will be taken up, I can't do what I want with my life, the kid will be more important than my own life... The list goes on.
But then I think about how cute the baby will be and I'm happy.
I wish I didn't feel so conflicted like I fully wanted to be a mom. I know a single mother that has absolutely no chance of having a father and I just think wow I have a SO rn at least to help I couldn't be u. Even so she's so happy and all she wanted was to care for the baby. Me I just want to be young and have my whole life ahead of me. I can't help but feel like a failure.