Merry Christmas, olds .. sounds like your in a good place.
I celebrated Christmas with my two sons and their family. My ex was also there. I asked her about her mom who is 90 now and lives in an assisted living place. Said the last time she saw her mom, she didn't recognize her. That was sad to hear. But she and her husband seems to be doing really well, so I'm glad for that. Also glad I have the life I have now. No desire to go back.