If u had 2 pick 1

[BabyGirl4Life]

If u had 2 pick 1 thing u dis like about being a PK's kid wut would it b

mines would b that even thou i luv being a pk it can b hard cause everybody looks at u like u r post 2 b an example 4 all the youth (even thou u r) and sometimes its hard 2 b an example 4 somebody an u goin throu the same thing
wut do u think

 

[Virginia1989]

I def agree. My dad has been a minister since i was like 2 and ppl do view u as jesus himself sometimes. it is very hard sometimes but thankfully i have a sister. we both rebelled against that added pressure and made alot of bad mistakes but now we r coming back. just keep ur head up and talk to someone about all of the pressures u face.

 

[Aceybee]

I think most PKs have that.. I was seen as an extension of my dad, and I had just as much obligation and responsibility as he did- cept he was getting paid to do it. I didn't rebel, but only because I didn't want them to be able to accuse my parents of not being good parents, goodness knows they tried everything else! That one had got to be in the top ten, but I think the thing I'd actually have to pick was almost not having an identity. I was my fathers daughter, and that was all I ever was. I had the obligations as an extension of him, people were nice (to my face) because I was his daughter.. they tend to define you that way.. that bugged me sooo much.. anyone else have that?

 

[boxers]

I hate how ppl expect you to do everything. Like in my 18 yrs as a pk I've done plays played in the youth and adult worship band, ran sound, worked nursery, taught youth, taught childrens church. only thing I havn't done is preach and trust me my dads trying to get me to do that. I'm still in my rebel phase I guess. lol

 

[Chosen4Greatness]

I hate how ppl expect you to do everything. Like in my 18 yrs as a pk I've done plays played in the youth and adult worship band, ran sound, worked nursery, taught youth, taught childrens church. only thing I havn't done is preach and trust me my dads trying to get me to do that. I'm still in my rebel phase I guess. lol

wow...that sounds familiar. I think I have done everything in the church too. But I thank God for that, if I wasn't so involved then who knows where I'd be. We have to thank God for that, as a PK's...it is hard to run from God.

 

[swingnscream]

I think most PKs have that.. I was seen as an extension of my dad, and I had just as much obligation and responsibility as he did- cept he was getting paid to do it. I didn't rebel, but only because I didn't want them to be able to accuse my parents of not being good parents, goodness knows they tried everything else! That one had got to be in the top ten, but I think the thing I'd actually have to pick was almost not having an identity. I was my fathers daughter, and that was all I ever was. I had the obligations as an extension of him, people were nice (to my face) because I was his daughter.. they tend to define you that way.. that bugged me sooo much.. anyone else have that?

my biggest pet peeve with being a PK would definitely be the way my name [and identity] get replaced by a title that doesn't really discribe me at all. I do a lot of things in & around the church and help out in different areas, yet the only credit or introduction I ever get is being the PK. I've yet to actually be to understand that.

 

[CaliforniaJosiah]

I LOVE being a PK...

But the ONLY draw back is that I've always been very talkative and opiniated (DUH). And while I NEVER remember being told so, I just kinda knew that what I said reflected on my father.

Soooo, in Sunday and later at youth group and Bible studies, I just kept my mouth shut unless what I had to say would be something my Dad would say.

As a result, when my best buddy invited me to his church youth group (Catholic), I jumped at the chance - just so I could be 'me.' Unfortunately, that backfired because I quickly became known as THE resident Protestant in their midst - and then had to tread carefully there!

I just felt "WATCHED." And I just wanted to be noisy, opiniated, plain old ME.

 

[CaliforniaJosiah]

Oh, one more thing....


Every now and then, the family insisted on going to some event or whatever TOGETHER - in one car. FATAL MISTAKE. It always meant we had to get to the chuch like 8 hours before the thing began and help set up, then afterwards, we'd all help clean up and Dad would have 600 people who wanted to talk with him. We were ALWAYS the first ones there and that last ones to leave. And I probably didn't want to go anyway.

I loved it when I got a license and my own car...

 

[Godslilgurlalways]

I hate how ppl expect you to do everything. Like in my 18 yrs as a pk I've done plays played in the youth and adult worship band, ran sound, worked nursery, taught youth, taught childrens church. only thing I havn't done is preach and trust me my dads trying to get me to do that. I'm still in my rebel phase I guess. lol

 

[DavidThomas]

thanks to church people for help

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[KoolKat]

the most thing i hate about being a PK is that some ppl expect me to know everything about theology, since my dad is a priest. they also expect me to act like my dad.

 

[CaliGirl1019]

yea... one of the things i can't stand (as said before) is getting to church at the crack of dawn and leaving after lunchtime. it's not as bad when my sisters are home, since they drive, but still... it bugs me.

it's also hard having someone you know really really well preaching... yes there is a second pastor, but i know him really well, too! and that makes it hard to ask for help sometimes, especially if you're a private person...

oh well, i guess all in all it's not THAT bad.

 

[KoolKat]

yea... one of the things i can't stand (as said before) is getting to church at the crack of dawn and leaving after lunchtime.

i hate that too.

 

[Silvestra]

Did not realise that it is tough being a child of a PK? It is almost like being like a public face!

 

[JC_Crust]

the thing i dont like is the fact that i have tattoos ect people want to say "its because youre a preachers kid"...its because i like them. im not trying to "rebel against my dad" lol. he thinks its funny when people say stuff like that.

 

[nanz2688]

I almost hate everything I did as A PK...it seems that I have no choice but to do things I don;t want to do.

 

[meowmix]

My Favorite thing would be................. Uh .............


My Least favorite thing is.... Everyone(Including my Parents) Expect me to Be perfect . I feel like a pack mule every time I step into the church, And Now I seriously can't enjoy church without Eye's bearing into my back, and or people asking me questions .

I really enjoy going to church, EXCEPT the one I'm going to right now.. Sadly, Because of my parent's and the people in my church.

I miss my old church, I had so many EQUAL friends .