I am a foster parent!
My husband believes we shouldn't bring more children into the world when there are so many in need. I'm just looking for a good point why we should leave it up to God.
Ah, I get where you're going with this, I think. Please, correct me if I am making poor assumptions here. You feel lead to leave your fertility in God's hands and your husband feels strongly against bringing biological children into the world when so many need adopting and you're looking for an argument to convince him the quiverfull position is valid?
Sister, you can't present an argument good enough to convince him. We are called to submit to our husbands. With that said, I know from personal experience that God can, and does, change hearts and minds when it's His will. I tried everything to get my husband to change his mind about his vasectomy. I cried, I pleaded, I downright begged, I cried some more, I yelled, I made threats. Suffice it to say these approaches never worked and always lead to huge fights that made me feel even worse about the situation.
I finally decided to leave it in God's hands. One day my husband asked me, out of the blue, how I saw our future. I broke down as I laid out the image in my head of teaching little girls how to bake bread and little boys playing in the yard and fingerpaintings stuck to the fridge with those plastic letter magnets. I envisioned the two of us being old and surrounded by lots of grandbabies. Honestly, I didn't know if I could take the emotional toll of there never being a possibility of me having any more children, but I had faith that if God wasn't going to change my husband's heart, He would change mine.
God saw fit to change my husband's and he's having his reversal this summer. It's been seven years since he had it done initially. We will celebrate our sixth year of marriage on June 2nd and God has just now placed the desire for children on my husband's heart. Not only that, but God gave my husband the desire to let Him be in control of how many children we will have. It was nothing I ever expected and it was a decision I was utterly powerless to make for my husband. There was not a single argument persuasive enough to make him see things my way. God had to make him see things
His way and in
His perfect timing.
Be encouraged that no matter what, God is in control and He hears your prayers. Just ask that His will be done.