I need severe help and I dont know where to turn. My daughter is hell bent on controlling every aspect of her life and showing me there is not a damn thing I can do about it.
It all started at 14. She seemed like she changed overnight. She went from a wonderful sweet girl to a girl who liked dark music and friends of a very questionable nature. I would throw out her CDs and she would be back with more the next day. We would fight and scream. She would tell me that she hates me and that I am ruining her life.
At 15 I found out she had been sleeping around. I would ground her and she would sneak out. I would take away her cell phone and she would take it back. I put her on lockdown and monitor her website history and she would surf porn sites just to upset me.
At 16 (her current age), I received a notification that she was going for an abortion. I told her she couldnt do it. Two days later she told me to go f*** myself and got one anyway.
At this point she doesnt even lie anymore. I have absolutely no control over her. She has stopped sleeping around, because she is in a committed relationship for the first time. She says everything is her choice and not mine. To my knowledge she doesnt do drugs. She makes relatively good grades.
Anything I tell her to do she does the exact opposite. She refuses to see any counselors. She says she wants me out of her life. She calls me a controlling b****. I want my old daughter back. But I dont know how to get there. What should I do?
Mel
It all started at 14. She seemed like she changed overnight. She went from a wonderful sweet girl to a girl who liked dark music and friends of a very questionable nature. I would throw out her CDs and she would be back with more the next day. We would fight and scream. She would tell me that she hates me and that I am ruining her life.
At 15 I found out she had been sleeping around. I would ground her and she would sneak out. I would take away her cell phone and she would take it back. I put her on lockdown and monitor her website history and she would surf porn sites just to upset me.
At 16 (her current age), I received a notification that she was going for an abortion. I told her she couldnt do it. Two days later she told me to go f*** myself and got one anyway.
At this point she doesnt even lie anymore. I have absolutely no control over her. She has stopped sleeping around, because she is in a committed relationship for the first time. She says everything is her choice and not mine. To my knowledge she doesnt do drugs. She makes relatively good grades.
Anything I tell her to do she does the exact opposite. She refuses to see any counselors. She says she wants me out of her life. She calls me a controlling b****. I want my old daughter back. But I dont know how to get there. What should I do?
Mel