• The General Mental Health Forum is now a Read Only Forum. As we had two large areas making it difficult for many to find, we decided to combine the Mental Health & the Recovery sections of the forum into Mental Health & Recovery as a whole. Physical Health still remains as it's own area within the entire Recovery area.

    If you are having struggles, need support in a particular area that you aren't finding a specific recovery area forum, you may find the General Struggles forum a great place to post. Any any that is related to emotions, self-esteem, insomnia, anger, relationship dynamics due to mental health and recovery and other issues that don't fit better in another forum would be examples of topics that might go there.

    If you have spiritual issues related to a mental health and recovery issue, please use the Recovery Related Spiritual Advice forum. This forum is designed to be like Christian Advice, only for recovery type of issues. Recovery being like a family in many ways, allows us to support one another together. May you be blessed today and each day.

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Guidance needed quickly..

scdanladd

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God gave you free will and in that free will you or your hubby made choices that make you feel used or even condemned. You are not defined by your past. You are defined by Jesus and he has made you a righteous child of God. This is a lot to swallow, but I'm talking from personal experience. You have to accept that there is nothing you can do to change your past. More importantly no matter what has happened or what you have done, you can not be seperated from Gods love!
 
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Timahani

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I am first off sorry for ur loss.im sorry that u had to endure some of the things u did.my advice would be....FOCIS ON FORGIVENESS not for his sake but as a form of release...u can journal..write a letter to him expressing All of your hurts then at the end expresd forgiveness once it is all out u can bury it. Puy it in a lake...what ever u needto do symbolically ti help u move on.....i am working on this myself...hope it helps!
 
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