Whereas I completely agree with this statement, I don't always think that it's our job, to tell the people of their sins and to convict them. We're not the ones who need to do the convicting, the Holy Spirit it
I once heard a story about this stripper who became saved and went to the pastor to ask him if she needed to give up stripping. His reply was for her to live her life according to what the Holy Spirit convicted her of. He didn't say yes, you need to stop, nor did he say no, you don't have to. This stripper went out, and since it was the only job she knew, she went to work the next night. Shortly after that she went back to the pastor and told him that she did give up stripping because she felt dirty and that it wasn't what God would want her to do.
The point of the story (and I know I tell it horribly) is that the pastor left it up to the Holy Spirit to convict her, which He did. It's not our place to condemn. For some, sin is dancing, drinking, and watching television. We have no right to place those convictions on other's. Granted, stripping, and many other sins are clearly outlined in the bible, and it's our obligation to disciple other's and point out what the bible says, but then we need to leave it up to the Holy Spirit to bring about change.
I totally agree with you. I'm not saying that we don't need to point out peoples sins, but we need to be careful to do it in a loving way and by simply pointing out what scripture says, not what WE believe to be sin. We also need to remember that before we can point out someone else's sins, we need to be clear of the "plank" in our own eye.
blessings