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From my recollection most Christian parents weren't instructing their children at home on spiritual matters. They got most of it from the church and the remainder at school if they attended a religious one. There's pros and cons to that and everything you hear isn't ideal.
The thing that weirded me out about church was the notion of implied trust. Just because you showed up you're okay. But I never agreed with that. We visited a Methodist church in the past and I stopped in the children's area. They had a Sunday school and a nice setup. The kids were singing and laughing and appeared to be enjoying themselves.
The teacher looked at me and said, she'll be okay you can go. My daughter was three years old. I smiled politely and took a seat. There's no way I'd leave her with strangers while I'm elsewhere. She was a little miffed that I didn't leave. But I trust my gut.
I took her to the sanctuary after that and kept her with me. She never went to children's church. There's nothing wrong with it per se. But I would only do it when they're teens. When they're more mature and not as vulnerable. You get all types in those places and most parents are too hands-off in my opinion.
~bella
Sadly, the notion I had that Christianity glamorized suffering was instilled in me before I even first attended Sunday School. Seeing iconography of Christian saints being tortured in glorified poses was enough. A very rudimentary intake is sufficient for the damage to start.
If I ever do have any children myself, I'd prefer they never set foot in a church... realistically I cannot shield them from the enormous cultural influence the faith has. If I ever do see any hint of them glamorizing suffering, they're quickly going to see a therapist. Even then, I have low confidence regarding how well-equipped therapists are with dealing with such issues. I know the subject has been written about academically for over a 100 years.. so there has been some thought process put forth. I know how mainstream it is within those circles.
A strong promotion of secular thought though.. can help deter this.
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