Hi
I am a christian and recently come to faith. I have been in a full relationship with a christian man for last year who is in very powerful position at work and in the community. He has a calling to ministry and is applying to go through discernment process. However, he remains married to his wife whom he left 15 years ago to live with someone else, when I met him he did not tell me his relationship status, I assumed he was single. He told me he was married but not with his wife and he needs to make decision whether to be with her or divorce her. He has told me he sees her at weekends and have holidays ...today I discovered he is not with his wife but his partner who he has never left. His vicar is sponsoring him and tonight I discovered him, his partner and the vicar having dinner! He told me he was going to be not at his home but that of his wife this weekend! He told me that he loves me etc etc he is lying cheating and deceiving everyone, I am the only one who knows what he is doing, I am his big secret. I am deeply concerned he is applying to be a priest yet is the biggest hypocrite and because of his power and position and his ability to lie so well he will become a priest. I am about to knock on his door and confront him, partner and vicar to tell them everything... and to inform the Bishop , NHS Trust governors, chief exective, but for some reason I am holding back from doing so... I have sent him message to contact me but as yet he has not responded... I am so confused, hurt and feel very damaged by a man everyone 'trusts' Please help me I do not know what to do.
I am a christian and recently come to faith. I have been in a full relationship with a christian man for last year who is in very powerful position at work and in the community. He has a calling to ministry and is applying to go through discernment process. However, he remains married to his wife whom he left 15 years ago to live with someone else, when I met him he did not tell me his relationship status, I assumed he was single. He told me he was married but not with his wife and he needs to make decision whether to be with her or divorce her. He has told me he sees her at weekends and have holidays ...today I discovered he is not with his wife but his partner who he has never left. His vicar is sponsoring him and tonight I discovered him, his partner and the vicar having dinner! He told me he was going to be not at his home but that of his wife this weekend! He told me that he loves me etc etc he is lying cheating and deceiving everyone, I am the only one who knows what he is doing, I am his big secret. I am deeply concerned he is applying to be a priest yet is the biggest hypocrite and because of his power and position and his ability to lie so well he will become a priest. I am about to knock on his door and confront him, partner and vicar to tell them everything... and to inform the Bishop , NHS Trust governors, chief exective, but for some reason I am holding back from doing so... I have sent him message to contact me but as yet he has not responded... I am so confused, hurt and feel very damaged by a man everyone 'trusts' Please help me I do not know what to do.