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So back in May 2007 I made my first post in the x-generation thread and singles thread. You can see a copy of it below that I found in the millennial thread. The one in the singles section was totally shut down, it got heated and there were arguments.
I'd like to adjust my questions to an older crowd. As now I'm finding quite a difference in what individuals said in their 20's and 30's as opposed to 40-65 age range. Please share your thoughts.
Boundaries in dating: The Physical
This is my first post to the singles ministry and I'm sure I'll be posting more. I'm curious about those who are dating over the age of 25 years old (not that those under don't have valid experience, but I jus think I can relate closer to my age)....ok I'm wondering if you might discuss your physical boundaries in a dating relationship.
Examples: not kissing till the alter, not kissing till 2nd or 3rd date, cuddling, holding hands in public or private places, watching movies at home, or maybe just what you do to prevent getting too physical. Bible verses or guidance you use? since it's pretty gray, esp. the song of songs doesn't seem clear if it's courting or marriage.
2nd question, how do you communicate your physical boundaries without talking about it in depth on the 1st couple of dates?
Lastly if there's anyone married here if holding out/limiting your physical affected your marriage and made it harder for you to enjoy each other since you got so used to a pattern of withholding? sorry all didn't mean to write an essay.
I'd like to adjust my questions to an older crowd. As now I'm finding quite a difference in what individuals said in their 20's and 30's as opposed to 40-65 age range. Please share your thoughts.
Boundaries in dating: The Physical
This is my first post to the singles ministry and I'm sure I'll be posting more. I'm curious about those who are dating over the age of 25 years old (not that those under don't have valid experience, but I jus think I can relate closer to my age)....ok I'm wondering if you might discuss your physical boundaries in a dating relationship.
Examples: not kissing till the alter, not kissing till 2nd or 3rd date, cuddling, holding hands in public or private places, watching movies at home, or maybe just what you do to prevent getting too physical. Bible verses or guidance you use? since it's pretty gray, esp. the song of songs doesn't seem clear if it's courting or marriage.
2nd question, how do you communicate your physical boundaries without talking about it in depth on the 1st couple of dates?
Lastly if there's anyone married here if holding out/limiting your physical affected your marriage and made it harder for you to enjoy each other since you got so used to a pattern of withholding? sorry all didn't mean to write an essay.