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Hello, and thank you to all here who have been so helpful to those of us out in Lurker-land.
On Christmas Day, I took the big plunge and drove three hours to visit- for the first time- a Greek Orthodox Church. I just went in and participated and let the chips fall where they may- didn't even put my ski mask on or anything. Although things run deeper for me, for my first visit, I reminded myself of Woody Allen's old line that "80% of life is just showing up" so my goal was to just show up that day. Don't think that my mind did not try to disable me by coming up with some first class excuses to chicken out cause you know it tried bigtime and then it came at it from a couple different angles.
Needless to say, I will be back. Once a tiger has tasted blood, there is no going back to being a vegetarian/ ie. the other goofy churches (little joke there, but not really). Maybe I will only be able to go to an Orthodox church once a month or so for a while and then I will have to put a better plan together somehow for the long run. So be it for now. I have scouted out an OCA Orthodox Church for a future visit as well, also 3 hours away. It is far away but I would rather start doing occasional "mini-pilgrimages" than pretend that ways of worshiping that are not acceptable or deep enough can be made workable just because they are closer. Nope- done with that type of thing, forever. I will figure something out over time. Meanwhile. I just want to learn at least a little more about the Orthodox Church each month, somewhere, somehow. I do learn massive amounts because I read massive amounts and have prayer practices- and that is all good, but as you know you have to actually show up somewhere, sometime to be part of community, so I am working on that.
On a more nitty-gritty level, if I could impose upon your kindness to answer a few basic questions about lighting candles, I would very much appreciate it. I thought that google would be my friend, but google is sort of a difficult child when it comes to the details of some of my questions.
Obviously I passed through the narthex on the way in but I was one of the early ones and no one was lighting candles right at that time. So- (I am little bit embarassed with the "basicness" of my questions- but 1) where do people get the candles to light? Are they there nearby in a holder or something, 2) you pay somehow, leave a donation somewhere or how is that done? and if so is there a set or suggested donation or just left to the individual's discretion? 3) you just light your candle off of any other candle that is lit or it poor form to light off of someone else's candle and there is a primary one somewhere that should be used? 4) can you take more than one candle for separate prayer wishes or expressions of gratitude whatever? 5) and then you just stick in the sand in the box or whatever is there in any place that looks available or are there rules and etiquette there? 6) Most of the candles are just wax type candles but some are in glass "tea-light" type holders. What is the difference in the use or dedication of one type versus and the other? 7) and then after the candle is lit, it is in the hands of the church then and just burns until it burns out or is put out as needed to safely close the church at the end of the day??
I know that is a lot of questions about something that is very simple once you know the answers- except I don't. So I will just hold out my begging bowl and any information tossed into that bowl is greatly appreciated.
Thank you again.
Nick
On Christmas Day, I took the big plunge and drove three hours to visit- for the first time- a Greek Orthodox Church. I just went in and participated and let the chips fall where they may- didn't even put my ski mask on or anything. Although things run deeper for me, for my first visit, I reminded myself of Woody Allen's old line that "80% of life is just showing up" so my goal was to just show up that day. Don't think that my mind did not try to disable me by coming up with some first class excuses to chicken out cause you know it tried bigtime and then it came at it from a couple different angles.
Needless to say, I will be back. Once a tiger has tasted blood, there is no going back to being a vegetarian/ ie. the other goofy churches (little joke there, but not really). Maybe I will only be able to go to an Orthodox church once a month or so for a while and then I will have to put a better plan together somehow for the long run. So be it for now. I have scouted out an OCA Orthodox Church for a future visit as well, also 3 hours away. It is far away but I would rather start doing occasional "mini-pilgrimages" than pretend that ways of worshiping that are not acceptable or deep enough can be made workable just because they are closer. Nope- done with that type of thing, forever. I will figure something out over time. Meanwhile. I just want to learn at least a little more about the Orthodox Church each month, somewhere, somehow. I do learn massive amounts because I read massive amounts and have prayer practices- and that is all good, but as you know you have to actually show up somewhere, sometime to be part of community, so I am working on that.
On a more nitty-gritty level, if I could impose upon your kindness to answer a few basic questions about lighting candles, I would very much appreciate it. I thought that google would be my friend, but google is sort of a difficult child when it comes to the details of some of my questions.
Obviously I passed through the narthex on the way in but I was one of the early ones and no one was lighting candles right at that time. So- (I am little bit embarassed with the "basicness" of my questions- but 1) where do people get the candles to light? Are they there nearby in a holder or something, 2) you pay somehow, leave a donation somewhere or how is that done? and if so is there a set or suggested donation or just left to the individual's discretion? 3) you just light your candle off of any other candle that is lit or it poor form to light off of someone else's candle and there is a primary one somewhere that should be used? 4) can you take more than one candle for separate prayer wishes or expressions of gratitude whatever? 5) and then you just stick in the sand in the box or whatever is there in any place that looks available or are there rules and etiquette there? 6) Most of the candles are just wax type candles but some are in glass "tea-light" type holders. What is the difference in the use or dedication of one type versus and the other? 7) and then after the candle is lit, it is in the hands of the church then and just burns until it burns out or is put out as needed to safely close the church at the end of the day??
I know that is a lot of questions about something that is very simple once you know the answers- except I don't. So I will just hold out my begging bowl and any information tossed into that bowl is greatly appreciated.
Thank you again.
Nick