Sometimes it’s hard to see God’s hand in our affairs. I recall someone I dated years ago. We parted and I felt sad. I asked for prayer and the intercessor said, “God put that away.” She was right.
We see in part and know in part but He sees all. It takes a long time to know someone. To understand their bones. We need the Lord’s input in our connections. The heart can be blind and misled. I’ve been on both sides of that statement.
The desire to hide or shut down seems right. But we’re harming ourselves and diminishing our loveliness. It is easier to build a wall than tear it down. Many become their own jailers unintentionally.
It is better to heal and learn from our experiences. That’s the harder road but it yields better spoils than the alternative.
Yours in His Service,
~bella