Hi, I posted before about my marital status.
To be succinct, I will say that I divorced my third husband while I was away from the Lord. I was in a backslidden position.
Okay, I met a man who is wonderful and all that. But, I've found a great church BUT a lady took it upon herself to tell me that the pastor wouldn't marry us. We are living together, for reasons I don't have time to go into. I know that has to stop.
So, we either get married or get separate places.
Someone commented on another thread:
I divorced my ex-husband, as I said, when I was in a backslidden condition. Does the Lord not forgive that, in the sense that I have seen where I messed up and can remarry?
There is absolutely no way I would consider reconciling to my ex-husband.
The reason I ask is because Jesus said if you even look on a woman with lust you have committed adultery in your heart.
The problem is, we are already a family. The kids love him. Do I have to break up another household? Obviously, I should never have allowed him to move in but I was backslid at the time.
Thoughts?
P.S. I really love him and he is so good to us. I guess I need to talk to my pastor, I don't know.
To be succinct, I will say that I divorced my third husband while I was away from the Lord. I was in a backslidden position.
Okay, I met a man who is wonderful and all that. But, I've found a great church BUT a lady took it upon herself to tell me that the pastor wouldn't marry us. We are living together, for reasons I don't have time to go into. I know that has to stop.
So, we either get married or get separate places.
Someone commented on another thread:
I fully anticipate that my church will not marry me... unless it was to my ex-wife. And why should they? Why should churches conform to our society rather than God's word?
I divorced my ex-husband, as I said, when I was in a backslidden condition. Does the Lord not forgive that, in the sense that I have seen where I messed up and can remarry?
There is absolutely no way I would consider reconciling to my ex-husband.
The reason I ask is because Jesus said if you even look on a woman with lust you have committed adultery in your heart.
The problem is, we are already a family. The kids love him. Do I have to break up another household? Obviously, I should never have allowed him to move in but I was backslid at the time.
Thoughts?
P.S. I really love him and he is so good to us. I guess I need to talk to my pastor, I don't know.