Am I the problem or are my family members a couple of them just not taking responsibility for the way they disrespectfully treat me and then all finge

[Kelly Rae]

Why is it that I always feel like it's me? It has to be me because three of my family members don't take responsibility for the way they talk to me disrespect me or just reject me. I speak up and then all fingers are pointed at me. I must be the bad guy.

 

[turkle]

It's near impossible to answer that question without more information. However, when I find that when the same thing happens over and over to me, that I am the common denominator.

 

[Lost4words]

God cannot be blamed for anything bad in our lives. God is mercy and love.

Trust in God wholeheartedly.

 

[MegChristian]

Is it just your family, or do other people seem to treat you the same way? Families can get caught up in bad communication habits. Sometimes it is just best to get some distance if you are an adult and can move away.

 

[John G.]

If you are a born-again Christian, you may become a target for other people's disrespect and criticism.
It has nothing to do with you. It's something within them, rebelling against Someone within you.

 

[Joseph G]

Matthew 5:11-16 NIV

"Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me. Rejoice and be glad, because great is your reward in heaven, for in the same way they persecuted the prophets who were before you."

“You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled underfoot."

“You are the light of the world. A town built on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven."