That is most definatly your opinion. There are no studies to back that up (to my knowledge, maybe you could show me?). Fetus have no neural net, therefore it is impossible to be alive. Plain and simple.
Ah, fetuses dream. We know this because we can measure their brain waves. Fetuses sleep, suck their thumbs, hear sounds and know their mothers voice. They also feel pain. If you pinch them they cry.