Recent content by malloriesDad

So very true!!! We sometimes don't find things out about ourselves till we are in truly difficult and hard situations. The analogy of the olive in an olive press is very fitting! I've found myself experiencing little of what you are talking about. I find myself being a little more friendly...

olds8598, Thank you so much for your words, I'm so sorry what has happened to you as well. It sounds like you are in a good place and getting better with every day. Your story has indeed helped, your story and others have showed me i'm not alone in how i'm feeling. And that things will get...

Hello Matthew, I'm so glad you went! God has touched your heart and he is calling you! Just as I was sitting in Church on Sunday. I could hear and feel him calling to me. We are a lot alike you and I....Both trying to find our way back home. God loves us all, his heart yearns for us to...

Will be praying for you and your husband!

Yes, so true! Thank you again for your continued prayers.

Sorry for your situation too! Yes, it's very heart wrenching to say the least. I pray for her everyday, I pray to God that she finds peace and happiness...even if that meant not being with me. I do still love her and as much as it hurts I would want her to be happy even if that's with...

Thank you. Yes, I try to always remember I'm not responsible, in-fact the counselor make it a point to remind me of this fact. It's just that how she is dealing with her issues can and will affect everyone else, not just her. I truly hope she finds happiness, I'm just not sure if she is...

Thanks to everyone! Dayhiker, I hear this form a lot of divorced guys. You are right, I struggled with trying to keep the marriage going. I tried hard to fix it. I've realized she just doesn't want to be married to me. It's still hurts though, like I just found out she's been posting all over...

Thank you all for your prayers, I'm just tired of all the up and down emotions. Just when I think things are looking up, something happens and she brings me right back down again. I got to be strong and not let it affect me so much!!

Thank you! I'm going to a Christian counselor for some time now and it's helping some. I guess it's just going to take time. It's just mind blowing at the amount of anger she has. And it's sad, because all of her anger and emotion is causing her un-happiness. It's like a vicious loop.

Very True! It's as if a piece of my soul is missing. But also, it's the life I wished for us is gone. The life where my wife, myself, & my two daughters live in a happy home. The life where my wife and I grow old together and retire happy. It's everything that I wanted to for us is now gone.

Great Matthew! I look forward to talking to you Monday and seeing how everything goes. Thank you Matthew as well!!!

Hello All, I'm recently divorced. Long story short, I tried to save our marriage. Wife was un-happy and wanted out and didn't even want to try to save it. No cheating or anything like that. She said it was her and she wasn't happy and not in-love with me anymore. I'm finding it hard to let my...

You said you are in a bad state emotionally and mentally. For what it's worth, I'm going through something similar I believe. Even tough I was saved early in life I have drifted from God's presence. I'm going through a divorce and am in a dark place in my life, I feel alone also. Last night...

Hello Matthew! I will be praying for you, and your salvation! I believe God speaks to us all, Christian or otherwise. It's just that we sometimes can't or won't listen to him. I'm happy that you are choosing to listen to him! He loves us all and wants to have a relationship with all his...