- Dec 7, 2020
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- Monaco
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- Divorced
Hey guys I need advice.
One year ago, is I was on the receiving end of a narcisisstic smear campaign last year by two "christian" actresses, making up all manner of false accusations and trying to destroy my career, relationships and friendships. It was really bad, two narcissists teamed up and I learned all about flying monkeys, and just how much damage a narcissist can do to their victim.
I had saved all the proof that would exonerate me on both of them and prove I was innocent and showed what they were doing behind the scenes. One was sexually immoral (she told a friend of mine she was all for sex before marriage) and I saw her signed up to a facebook online sex hookup group. I later caught her in a blatant lie and confronted her over her lies. A few weeks ago I decided to let go and finally delete the evidence (or at least part of it, which is the most important part and I'm now regretting I didn't hold onto it, although there may be another copy on my hard drives) and forgive and leave the person in God's hands.
Now I find out that she has connected herself to a film ministry close to work and I may run into her again. I am scared she is going to again try and destroy me. I've been wrestling with what to do, as I just started at my new job at a Christian film place, and if I speak up that can worry my employer and trigger another narcissistic campaign from the NPD person, but if I remain silent this person has proven they have no issues with trying to destroy me just so she can advance her career. Today I mentioned it to one of my supervisors but I now don't feel safe having shared what happened last year.
All I know to do is be like David when Saul was throwing spears at him, to just duck and weave and not throw any back. But what am I to do otherwise? I'm concerned that this woman who said she would do nudity in film and all, is in a position to really bring down a new ministry and she's seeming to pull the wool over their eyes in my opinion. She used me to fund a mission trip at one point, but even though she had it fully funded she claimed it wasn't and asked me to pay the difference, she then used the extra money from me to fly to see her family before the trip.
I feel like I've done all I can just to make my supervisor aware that there has been someone seeking to destroy me, but to be like Jesus was when falsely accused and hold my tongue and let God be my defender.
I don't want to see her destroyed, I hope and pray God convicts her over what she has done in the past and gets things right with God. The thought of her turning up at work though makes me feel sick and the threat of further lies and false accusations really worries me.
One year ago, is I was on the receiving end of a narcisisstic smear campaign last year by two "christian" actresses, making up all manner of false accusations and trying to destroy my career, relationships and friendships. It was really bad, two narcissists teamed up and I learned all about flying monkeys, and just how much damage a narcissist can do to their victim.
I had saved all the proof that would exonerate me on both of them and prove I was innocent and showed what they were doing behind the scenes. One was sexually immoral (she told a friend of mine she was all for sex before marriage) and I saw her signed up to a facebook online sex hookup group. I later caught her in a blatant lie and confronted her over her lies. A few weeks ago I decided to let go and finally delete the evidence (or at least part of it, which is the most important part and I'm now regretting I didn't hold onto it, although there may be another copy on my hard drives) and forgive and leave the person in God's hands.
Now I find out that she has connected herself to a film ministry close to work and I may run into her again. I am scared she is going to again try and destroy me. I've been wrestling with what to do, as I just started at my new job at a Christian film place, and if I speak up that can worry my employer and trigger another narcissistic campaign from the NPD person, but if I remain silent this person has proven they have no issues with trying to destroy me just so she can advance her career. Today I mentioned it to one of my supervisors but I now don't feel safe having shared what happened last year.
All I know to do is be like David when Saul was throwing spears at him, to just duck and weave and not throw any back. But what am I to do otherwise? I'm concerned that this woman who said she would do nudity in film and all, is in a position to really bring down a new ministry and she's seeming to pull the wool over their eyes in my opinion. She used me to fund a mission trip at one point, but even though she had it fully funded she claimed it wasn't and asked me to pay the difference, she then used the extra money from me to fly to see her family before the trip.
I feel like I've done all I can just to make my supervisor aware that there has been someone seeking to destroy me, but to be like Jesus was when falsely accused and hold my tongue and let God be my defender.
I don't want to see her destroyed, I hope and pray God convicts her over what she has done in the past and gets things right with God. The thought of her turning up at work though makes me feel sick and the threat of further lies and false accusations really worries me.