- May 14, 2002
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I wrote a thread over Long Distance Relationships. Because me and my girlfriend have a long distance relationship- she lives in North Carolina, and I live in Texas. We talk all the time... but last night we really got into deep discussion. She told me, "Dave if you want to date other people while we are dating that is fine." and that shocked me! I told her, "Why would I want to do that?- I want to be commited to you." Because I believe that she is made for me. Well anyway, she said that she has been dating other people in the last 2 weeks. She asked me if that hurt me- I said no. But it kind of bothers me. I am not there to see if she is being faithful. What if she isn't? I absolutely have no problem with her going out with guys if it's like a friendship thing. But if she is doing things w/ them that she should be only doing with me... I have a problem with that. I don't think it's irrational either. Also she says- she is afraid to fall in love with me. Well, I know it's really early in the relationship and I don't blame her if she doesn't "love" me yet. But... she needs to give up something to be with me. I am giving up a lot... I am fighting for her in prayer and keeping true to her. This can't be a one way deal. Is me asking where she stands and how much she values this- is that a bad thing? Or am I being too serious about this LDR?