Now I do realize it is difficult for you to see the truth here, it's obvious (respectfully) your mind has been trained in a carnal thinking way. You need to have a part in your salvation, I was the same way at one time.
Please don't compare me with you or anyone else. And to claim that I was trained in a "carnal thinking way" is highly offensive. I've noted from all the Calvinists on this forum that their understanding of spiritual growth is nil. iow, they have none. Apparently for a Calvinist, God not only causes the faith, and saves, He also causes the spiritual growth, so there is absolutely nothing for a Calvinist to do in that regard. It's all God's. Just sit back and wait for it.
Yet, Peter was clear about the responsibility of each believer. 2 Pet 1:3-10
v.3 seeing that His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence.
So, what is this "everything" that God has granted to believers for "life and godliness"? At least 2 things: Scriptures (true knowledge of Him) and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit.
I've yet to see any Calvinist address the commands to be filled with the Holy Spirit (Eph 5:18) or "walk by means of the Holy Spirit and you will NOT fulfill the desires of the flesh", which Paul went on to describe in gory detail.
Or the negative commands to "stop grieving the Holy Spirit" (Eph 4:30) and "stop quenching the Spirit" in 1 Thess 5:19).
These commands are vital for the believer's spiritual growth. Unless one is filled and walking by the Holy Spirit, they WILL fulfill the desires of the flesh, and therefore ARE grieving and quenching the Holy Spirit.
So much for "irresistible grace". Men resist the Holy Spirit, per Acts 7:51, and believers do grieve and quench the Holy Spirit. Which is why we are commanded to stop it.
I'm still waiting for someone of the RT persuasion to explain these 4 commands and what they are for.
But, let's continue with Peter's words. v.5a Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply...moral excellence, and in your moral excellence, knowledge, 6and in your knowledge, self-control, and in your self-control, perseverance, and in your perseverance, godliness, 7and in your godliness, brotherly kindness, and in your brotherly kindness, love.
iow, we, the believer are to ADD TO our faith these things.
And, what is the result of adding these things to our faith? v.8 For if these qualities are yours and are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
iow, believers are only fruitful WHEN they have ADDED to their faith these character qualities.
And what is the result of those who haven't ADDED to their faith those character qualities?
v.9 For he who lacks these qualities is blind or short-sighted, having forgotten his purification from his former sins.
So, what should believers do? v.10 Therefore, brethren,
be all the more diligent to make certain about His calling and choosing you; for as long as you practice these things, you will never stumble;
The responsibility for spiritual growth is on the believer, who is commanded to be all the more diligent to make certain their calling and election.
This isn't to say that we confirm our salvation. Peter is saying that believers are to produce in their lifestyle appropriate verification that they are royal people (1 Pet 2:9).
Further results for those believers who have ADDED TO their faith those character qualities:
v.11 for in this way the entrance into the eternal kingdom of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ will be abundantly supplied to you.
Please note that Peter isn't speaking of just entering the kingdom. He's talking about an "abundant entrance". I'll take an abundant entrance to just an entrance any day. This is another verse on eternal rewards for behavior. But I suspect the reformed will just dismiss all this with a wave of the hand and claim true believers will all have an abundant entrance.
Did you look at post #2? I hope it helps.
Yes I did. Why haven't you considered how present participles (the believing ones) interact with the action of the main verb?