The issue isn’t corrected, but I want it to be corrected because I know this isn’t right for me or for her. She doesn’t know, because I’m normally home doing things around the house. I work, but my job calls me to travel, as we as her job. Given the situation at hand, I don’t think you’re talking harshly at all. I’ve installed Covenant Eyes on my phone, and my wife has the passcode to the settings on my phone, so I can’t change it if I wanted to look at inappropriate content. I’ve started steps in the right direction. I just wanted to get some advice on if I should continue to do the work quietly, or go ahead and tell her what I’ve been dealing with. Again, telling her would still leave me with dealing with my issues alone. I’ve told her in the past that I have messed up and had a lustful heart, and it’s equivalent to cheating, but haven’t outright said that I’ve cheated, and she has forgiven me and has worked with me since telling her about it. The Pastor I’ve talked to has said if I have confessed my sins to God, then it is up to me to tell my wife, but both have severe consequences. I don’t HAVE to tell her, but it’s up to me. If I do decide to stay, I need to stop immediately and get help.