Dream update of her waiting for me to ask her out

[Louiss11]

so ive had this dream of a woman waiting for me to ask her and and then the strangest thing happened, she actuallt asked me out but we didnt follow up for a second date.

we still talk but shes hot and cold about it so i dont know wether to pursue? help lol

 

[Michie]

so ive had this dream of a woman waiting for me to ask her and and then the strangest thing happened, she actuallt asked me out but we didnt follow up for a second date.

we still talk but shes hot and cold about it so i dont know wether to pursue? help lol

Are you talking about a dream you had concerning a woman you know in real life??

 

[Louiss11]

Are you talking about a dream you had concerning a woman you know in real life??

Yes.

 

[Michie]

Yes.

Obviously she has been on your mind. We often dream about subjects that are. Is there anything in particular that makes you feel this is a special dream/message from the Lord?

 

[Louiss11]

Obviously she has been on your mind. We often dream about subjects that are. Is there anything in particular that makes you feel this is a special dream/message from the Lord?

well, just the fact that she asked me out after all of those dreams.

 

[Michie]

well, just the fact that she asked me out after all of those dreams.

Well from your first post, I’d just let it go. Hot and cold is not a healthy mode to base any relationship on. Dreams are not always from the Lord. You have to operate in the day to day reality. You should probably back off right now and focus on other things at this point. Praying for God’s guidance and your discernment. God bless you.

 

[ss51]

I've seen this a lot, the hot and cold thing, not good.

 

[Strong in Him]

so ive had this dream of a woman waiting for me to ask her and and then the strangest thing happened, she actuallt asked me out but we didnt follow up for a second date.

we still talk but shes hot and cold about it so i dont know wether to pursue? help lol

You obviously think a lot of her, or she's on your mind a lot. But that doesn't mean that God is telling you to go out with her.
You haven't followed it up for a second date, and she's "hot and cold". Do you want to go out with her again - even though she can't make up her mind about you?

If you do ever have a second date, that doesn't mean anything - except that you have decided to try to get to know each other a bit better. A relationship has to be built on more than a dream.

 

[Grafted In]

The first thing I think you should take into concideration, if you are a believer, do you know whether or not she is.
If you are and she isn't, you are playing with fire.

 

[Louiss11]

she is a believer

 

[Hidden In Him]

she is a believer

Greetings Louis, and blessings in Christ.

Have you had any more dreams about this woman since you last posted?

Blessings,
Hidden

 

[Louiss11]

I have but it’s rare. The they happen to be in classroom settings.

 

[Hidden In Him]

I have but it’s rare. The they happen to be in classroom settings.

Ok, well that's good actually. She's a Christian you said, so have you discussed the Bible with her at all?