HisLittleHazelnut
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ChildOfGod20 said:betrothal means the same as engagement. betrothed is used in the king james version and engaged is used in the niv. theres no differnence
There is a difference. Betrothal was a permanent arrangement where the people were considered to be married and there was no way out save divorce.
Our modern day engagement leaves room to leave that person. When we were "engaged" I actually made a vow not to leave him from that point of time onward. He made the same vow to me, and we had witnesses. I believe that God heard this, and will take it as a divorce if we ever do leave each other. That is why I say mine is more of a betrothal. I not only said I will marry him, but I said that I will never leave him. We were planning on getting legally married soon after.
However he developed lupus, and he had to go home 3000 miles away from me, so a year and a half later we're still waiting on legalizing this. And I'll tell you, that if we did not firmly believe that this was a betrothal, and during a betrothal they were considered married, and it dissolvable only by a divorce, which in God's eyes is wrong except in the case of infidelity, then I wonder if we could have held on for so long. And there is no end in sight for us.
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