I took us a while till I realized we should be quiverfull.
My husband and me have been married for ten years. Nine out of this ten years we used contraception. We thought God was fine with natural family planning. Actually we had always wanted children, but we put other things (college, career and so on) first.
We - of course - knew Gods command to be fruitful and multiply but we thought that this was back then and it did not apply to us today any longer.
When we decided to turn our fertility over to God. I was pregnant within three month. I am more than happy. Well my gyn told me I would take me at least 1 year at my age. I will be 33, when our son will be born by the way.
I know I should feel blessed, but I regret our decision to use contraception so much. I cannot stop thinking of all the children God wanted to send us and we thwarted it.
I plan on breast feeding on demand, which, I know, greatly reduces fertility and I am already that old. I never realized how much fertility declines with age.
I feel like I have stolen our son the chance to ever have children and I feel so guilty, because I would not let God bless me with children before.
My husband and me have been married for ten years. Nine out of this ten years we used contraception. We thought God was fine with natural family planning. Actually we had always wanted children, but we put other things (college, career and so on) first.
We - of course - knew Gods command to be fruitful and multiply but we thought that this was back then and it did not apply to us today any longer.
When we decided to turn our fertility over to God. I was pregnant within three month. I am more than happy. Well my gyn told me I would take me at least 1 year at my age. I will be 33, when our son will be born by the way.
I know I should feel blessed, but I regret our decision to use contraception so much. I cannot stop thinking of all the children God wanted to send us and we thwarted it.
I plan on breast feeding on demand, which, I know, greatly reduces fertility and I am already that old. I never realized how much fertility declines with age.
I feel like I have stolen our son the chance to ever have children and I feel so guilty, because I would not let God bless me with children before.