My prayer life is doing just fine. I don't have a ministry. Right now I don't have a ministry. Work and taking care if my family is my calling. If people want to know about Christ, they come to me and I can lead them just fine. I don't need to speak/pray in tongues.
Not everything is done the AOG way in the Christian world and it works just fine not doing it that way.
I am curious, why don't you send people to that website of yours anymore. You used to say that you would find good counsel there. I don't see you doing that anymore.
I find that is easier to give my views here for all who read these threads to see. I am a trained typist so I can type a lot of content quiet easily. I do update my website from time to time, depending if there is something appropriate to add.
I will tell you that when my daughter at the age of 17 went through a clinical depression and we were on suicide watch for her for six weeks, just being able to pray from my mind just wasn't enough. I needed a more powerful spirit of intercession for her and so I asked the Lord to guide my tongues gift to provide it. I prayed more in tongues during the nine months she was depressed than I had ever prayed before. As a result my language changed several times, and after nine months she came right out of the depression, kicked her addiction to codeine, got off her methadone programme so quickly the pharmacist was amazed because she had never seen anyone get free of it so quickly. She did half a degree in psychology, went and became a gym trainer, and got a permanent position in administration and is now an assistance manager. It confirms that the fervent effectual prayer of a righteous man avails much, especially when the person praying is for his daughter.
Another memorable episode was when I was first involved in CF, a member told me about his mother who was suffering a life threatening stomach bleed in an English hospital. The doctors couldn't stop the bleeding and it was feared that she might not last the night. I live in New Zealand, 12.000 miles away. I was driving somewhere in my car, and I asked the Lord to help me intercede for her. Immediately, when I started praying in tongues, a whole new intense language came out, a combination of Japanese and a fax machine, it was so fast. It lasted for 20 minutes and I felt really drained afterward. It was around midday in New Zealand, so it would have been midnight in England. The member came back to me a couple of days later to tell me that around midnight in the hospital the bleeding suddenly stopped and now she is well on the way to recovery. This also show the power of tongues in intercession.
We will never know when we will be called upon to intercede for a family member in deep trouble, especially when that trouble is life-threatening, or when someone in your church or on CF asks you to intercede in prayer for someone having serious medical issues that could end their life. One needs more than just our own language to be able to wrestle and travail in fervent and effectual prayer. The Scripture says that we need to pray and not faint. If we are depending on our finite mind in prayer we very quickly run out of words. The only answer is to be able to pray in the Spirit. One cannot manufacture deep intercessory prayer in the Spirit. It has to flow right out of our innermost being. But if the flow of the Spirit is not already there in our normal prayer times, then when a deeper intercession is needed, there will be nothing to support it.
But then, if you have never experienced anything like that, then you would have no idea of it and therefore would be satisfied with what you have. I was so glad that I had the gift of tongues when it came to interceding for my daughter when she needed it.