How is your family support system?
My sister is it for us. I have no other family. She listens, and tries to understand, but she is thousands of miles away. Locally--my parent in-laws keep asking "have you got it fixed yet?" like our daughter has a flat tire, my father in law won't have anything to do with Mary because I guess he thinks she is "defective" or something, and my sister in-law is compasionate, but she just leaves the room in tears when my daughter has a pain episode. We can't leave her with any family (as you can see). We can't put her in daycare, because falls bring on a pain episode, and can actually cause her conditions to worsen, and let's face it kids--even if they are not being cruel--are rowdy. I have one friend we just began to trust our daughter with. She is a blessing. She cringes when Mary has pain episodes, but she can medicate her, and she can keep her from hurting herself worse until the medicine works. My hubby, and I actually got to go on a couple hour day date for the first time in over four years.
So, how does your families respond?
Mayzoo
My sister is it for us. I have no other family. She listens, and tries to understand, but she is thousands of miles away. Locally--my parent in-laws keep asking "have you got it fixed yet?" like our daughter has a flat tire, my father in law won't have anything to do with Mary because I guess he thinks she is "defective" or something, and my sister in-law is compasionate, but she just leaves the room in tears when my daughter has a pain episode. We can't leave her with any family (as you can see). We can't put her in daycare, because falls bring on a pain episode, and can actually cause her conditions to worsen, and let's face it kids--even if they are not being cruel--are rowdy. I have one friend we just began to trust our daughter with. She is a blessing. She cringes when Mary has pain episodes, but she can medicate her, and she can keep her from hurting herself worse until the medicine works. My hubby, and I actually got to go on a couple hour day date for the first time in over four years.
So, how does your families respond?
Mayzoo