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Burden = no love.What's wrong with burden? Why this insistence on freedom.
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Burden = no love.What's wrong with burden? Why this insistence on freedom.
I absolutely disagree with your fairy tale notion of love.Burden = no love.
The word "burden" has a few layers of meaning, depending on the context. I speak of taking on the burden of others and not considering it burdensome. Jesus Christ of Nazareth indeed took on the burden of humanity. He did not consider it burdensome because of His Love. In the case of the homeless and unfortunate we should , like Christ, alleviate some of their burdens and not feel that it becomes burdensome to our own life. Hope that clears it up. Blessings.I absolutely disagree with your fairy tale notion of love.
Even love involves carrying burdens.. it's easy to love when it's easy.
The real test of love is when it gets hard... when you don't want to do it, but you still do it out of love.
Jesus carried a heavy burden and truly suffered. Freedom doesn't mean 'carefree', it means choice, sometimes abysmal choices!
Jesus would have had that cup taken away from him if there was any other way.. but there wasn't, so he bore our sins.. a heavy burden indeed.. out of love.
But in the case that it does start to feel 'burdensome'... at that point what would you do? Would you withdraw your assistance because it doesn't feel like love anymore?The word "burden" has a few layers of meaning, depending on the context. I speak of taking on the burden of others and not considering it burdensome. Jesus Christ of Nazareth indeed took on the burden of humanity. He did not consider it burdensome because of His Love. In the case of the homeless and unfortunate we should , like Christ, alleviate some of their burdens and not feel that it becomes burdensome to our own life. Hope that clears it up. Blessings.
This kind of love is only judged by God Himself. We can not judge the hearts of men. Blessings.But in the case that it does start to feel 'burdensome'... at that point what would you do? Would you withdraw your assistance because it doesn't feel like love anymore?
Drop them like a hot potato?
You didn't answer... would you continue to help if it felt like a burden?This kind of love is only judged by God Himself. We can not judge the hearts of men. Blessings.
2 Corinthians 9
Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver.
It doesn't feel like a burden when I help. Compassion overcomes me.You didn't answer... would you continue to help if it felt like a burden?
I absolutely disagree with your fairy tale notion of love.
Even love involves carrying burdens.. it's easy to love when it's easy.
The real test of love is when it gets hard... when you don't want to do it, but you still do it out of love.
Jesus carried a heavy burden and truly suffered. Freedom doesn't mean 'carefree', it means choice, sometimes abysmal choices!
Jesus would have had that cup taken away from him if there was any other way.. but there wasn't, so he bore our sins.. a heavy burden indeed.. out of love.
Forgive me, I worked in care for 21 years.. we can all get compassion fatigue sometimes... It seems unrealistic to me that you always feel light and fluffy and weightless when caring for others. When you've been there for days, sometimes getting attacked, and it's hard and goes on and on... It's hard work sometimes.It doesn't feel like a burden when I help. Compassion overcomes me.
I agree. I have been a professional caregiver as well as a mother and a volunteer. It's not all roses. Neither is married love. There's commitment, and sometimes it's hard.Forgive me, I worked in care for 21 years.. we can all get compassion fatigue sometimes... It seems unrealistic to me that you always feel light and fluffy and weightless when caring for others. When you've been there for days, sometimes getting attacked, and it's hard and goes on and on... It's hard work sometimes.
Thank you for helping others in need. Be blessed.Forgive me, I worked in care for 21 years.. we can all get compassion fatigue sometimes... It seems unrealistic to me that you always feel light and fluffy and weightless when caring for others. When you've been there for days, sometimes getting attacked, and it's hard and goes on and on... It's hard work sometimes.
How should Christians relate to homeless people, and how should they help? Should they help?
Is it a matter of prayer only, or what else should be offered?
Should non-Christians be helped?
What are your opinions? And what does the Bible say?
Are you, as saved Christians, under any obligation to help others?
Here is a video about one woman's experience of homelessness..
Nah. I mean sure some will, but some do buy food, coffee, even things like feminine hygiene supplies (if it's a woman) that they might not be able to get otherwise.For beggars on the street, I’ve been helping them. I’ve always been taught they just use it for drugs,
I think both lines of thinking are wrong & can lead to problems. Thinking most will use it for your list. Or thinking most won't. The point isn't what they want it for.Nah. I mean sure some will, but some do buy food, coffee, even things like feminine hygiene supplies (if it's a woman) that they might not be able to get otherwise.
I agree.I think both lines of thinking are wrong & can lead to problems. Thinking most will use it for your list. Or thinking most won't. The point isn't what they want it for.