I'm a good husband. I work hard and provide for my family. I work 7am to 7pm 6 days a week, come home, wash clothes, change babies, clean kitchen and cook dinner. I try to spend any extra money on my wife to make her happy. We go out almost every week to have lunch and we spend every evening together watching tv or doing something else together.
She has cheated, several times. One of the times she said it was possible my child was not mine. I have forgiven her, for all the times she did.
But this last time it cut me real deep. She met a new friend. Her friend was awesome, but I found out that they were "in love" and would sleep together when I was at work. They had planned on fooling me until one day leaving me when they no longer needed my financial support.
I told her, I will try until the day I die to make us happy and work, but I was done feeling like it was all my fault. I wasn't going to beg her to stay. And that if she wants to leave then she should leave, but if she wants to stay that she needs to change her number and block all communication with this woman, which she did do.
She said she wants to make it work, she apologized, and started being more affectionate, and loving.
Only to find her looking for another woman 2 days later.
I keep telling myself that I promised to God I would never give up on her. That whats a promise without being tested. I love her more than anything on this planet. I put her before everything and everyone aside from God.
I want some Christian advice. Am I doing the right thing. Is God trying to tell me something. I can't hear him right now. I pray and pray and I feel I am perfect silence with no signs, no direction.
Please help?
Thank you... so very much.
She has cheated, several times. One of the times she said it was possible my child was not mine. I have forgiven her, for all the times she did.
But this last time it cut me real deep. She met a new friend. Her friend was awesome, but I found out that they were "in love" and would sleep together when I was at work. They had planned on fooling me until one day leaving me when they no longer needed my financial support.
I told her, I will try until the day I die to make us happy and work, but I was done feeling like it was all my fault. I wasn't going to beg her to stay. And that if she wants to leave then she should leave, but if she wants to stay that she needs to change her number and block all communication with this woman, which she did do.
She said she wants to make it work, she apologized, and started being more affectionate, and loving.
Only to find her looking for another woman 2 days later.
I keep telling myself that I promised to God I would never give up on her. That whats a promise without being tested. I love her more than anything on this planet. I put her before everything and everyone aside from God.
I want some Christian advice. Am I doing the right thing. Is God trying to tell me something. I can't hear him right now. I pray and pray and I feel I am perfect silence with no signs, no direction.
Please help?
Thank you... so very much.