Having gone from Southern Baptist to Catholic to Southern Baptist (long story)- I too am not of the Jack Chick fold or Bob Jones.
There are several variations of the SBC The one I presently attend is very ecumenical - just one example - we meet with Methodist churches for Lenten services/meals during the week.
However, the other SBC in this area which we attended first was so conservative in their views that they did not support any churches/missions/missionaries that were not Baptist - as if they have a monopoly on the gospel. They also did not like music with a "beat" (Christian or no) which is all we listen to - DCTalk, Carmen, AudioAdrenline, Reliant K, Kathy Troccolli, Michael W. Smith etc etc
I almost lost it when they commented on the importance of sending a missionary couple from their church to an island to repair a Baptist church that did not withstand a tropical storm because all this island had were witch doctors and a Catholic church (that had somehow miraculously withstood the storm).
We left that church with no hard feelings.
What a joy to be a part of a church that is supporting my son who is going on a short-term summer missions trip to the island of Vanuatu (he is 14) with Teen Missions - they don't care what religion he is helping cause it is a Christian one - they are just happy to see him involved. Last summer he went to Hungary to help a Methodist orphan camp - the conservative church refused to even mention it in their prayer meetings!!!
Anyway, the point is that we can't judge a religion by the actions of one person - but unfortunately all it takes is one to make the rest look bad :o
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