Okay, madame matchmaker! I'll bite.
For the majority of the men on the site I'm the wrong fit. They don't need a woman like me. Their lives don't require the qualities and skills I bring to the table. Its overkill. I want a man who needs what I have to offer. He's bettered by my presence in every way. I don't want to be dormant or consigned to a life I'd never choose for myself. I have to be practical.
Many have little to no experience. That's fine when you're in the same boat. But less so when you've dealt with others like yourself. I don't have men who tiptoe around their interest or rely on innuendo to express themselves. They say I like you, I want you, etc. There's no ambiguity.
Being here has taught me a lot. I didn't grow up in Christian culture. I don't have the same ideologies and messages in my head. My family was practical. Marriage wasn't a goal or idol. It was my choice.
When I think of forever I'm visualizing a complement. Someone whose strengths, gifts, and talents match my own. I need something in return. He needs to have it in tow.
ETA: And be in his 30s!
~bella